nhman Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 My wife and i have a good sex life, but i wanted more out of it. She would not let me perform oral sex on her. I was secretly masturbating while fantasizing about it, and she just told me she too was secretly masturbating while thinking of me (after which i told her I was doing the same). Then she let me perform oral sex on her after that and now i am so aroused i can't calm down after 2 days. How do i go forward from here now that i am so excited i want to have sex with her 3 times a day, but that is too much for her. She described in detail how she masturbates and it is driving me so wild i can't concentrate on anything else! All i do now is masturbate while picturing her masturbating! I guess this is a good problem to have, but I can't get the visual image of her masturbating out of my head and i have to get back to doing the necessary everyday things in life! Link to post Share on other sites
analystfromhell Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 To do it within visual range of one another or perhaps (if not) in separate rooms? Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Tisk tisk. Lump it. It will run it's course. Just go nuts for a while with her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nhman Posted February 15, 2012 Author Share Posted February 15, 2012 ...I asked her if she would like for us to masturbate in front of each other, but she said she would be embarrassed to do it in front of me.....maybe if i tell her how stimulating it would be for me (and hopefully us) she may, over time, get used to the idea and want to try it.... Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Are you two religious? There seems to be a lot of repression and shame going on that is typical of the religious. Link to post Share on other sites
Million.to.1 Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Are you two religious? There seems to be a lot of repression and shame going on that is typical of the religious. I was wondering the same thing. I think you should tell your wife about how excited you are getting. Reassure her that she has nothing to feel embarrassed about and that seeing her do that would be a dream come true for you... This is really sweet. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nhman Posted February 15, 2012 Author Share Posted February 15, 2012 she was brought up catholic and is quite shy, so given that, I am happy we reached this new level, but am eager to take it even farther. She had a fantastic, loud, long, shuddering orgasm when she let me perform oral sex on her. When I asked if she would like to try oral sex on me (which she always refused), she said she is intrigued by it and may try it.....progress sometime comes in slow steps, but as long as we get to where we are going!! I remain hopeful and am thankful we have gotten this far..... Link to post Share on other sites
Million.to.1 Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 A spouse engaging in unexpectedly highly sexualized behavior, fantasizing, masturbation, etc. is a clear red flag that she is already having an affair. When people like your wife are having an affair they become ultra-sexualized and it often reflects in the marital bedroom. Where the hell you get that from? I think you need to carefully reread the post by OP. You have the wrong end of the stick. OP.. I would suggest taking a little control though... Woman do like that. But you know here better than any of us, so do what you feel is right to get the best out of her. Have fun kids! x Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 Looks like one troll is feeding the other... Link to post Share on other sites
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