Baby Blue Eyes Posted June 3, 2004 Share Posted June 3, 2004 my ex and i have had no contact for three months until recently. we've been broken up for about a year now officially-but were kind of on and off with our feelings until november. he has had a girlfriend for the past 6 months, and i have been basically single except for a few flings. anywho- word got back to him that i was talking to a new man, and he found out-and began asking one of my friends about it (which is totally unlike him). i also heard that he has been talking about me a lot lately which gives me hope that he's beginning to miss me. anyways ... last night he ran into me and a girl he talked to last summer talking at a gas station. he doesnt even know me and this girl were friends until he saw us talking last night. when i went in to pay, him and i were the only people in the gas station-we couldnt even look at eachother. he couldnt even look at me in the eye-he just did out of hte corner of his eye. my question is... why cant he be NICE to me?! i have done nothing but care for him since the break up... he was my first love-i lost everything else having to do with him, why do i have to lose his friendship? why cant he say HI to me???!?! opinions PLEASE!!!! i still miss him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Baby Blue Eyes Posted June 4, 2004 Author Share Posted June 4, 2004 please help Link to post Share on other sites
jk Posted June 4, 2004 Share Posted June 4, 2004 Maybe he's putting up a front. If he says Hi to you then he's thinking that could initiate a conversation he's not ready to have. Guys play it cool like that all the time to avoid being in uncomfortable situations. It felt really weird for me when I dropped off my ex's stuff at his house. He didn't even say Hi to me- he just took the stuff and said bye and left. It's such a weird feeling- you remember how you guys were practically best friends and then you go from that to nothing at all. It just sucks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Baby Blue Eyes Posted June 6, 2004 Author Share Posted June 6, 2004 i'm sorry that it sounds like you're going through the same thing... it DOES suck--very badly. its just confusing how he asks other people about me~ but then when he sees me in person he cant look at me in the eye--- i just wonder what his opinion is of me... but i need to stop wondering and "move on" we'll see how long that attempt will last ... Link to post Share on other sites
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