Yikes! I got myself into a bind with two guys: What should I do?

[sagweee]

I belong to this social club that has Friday night dinners every week and there are two guys there interested in me. THe first one used to be my boyfriend for a very brief period last year... Just recently he started showing interest in me and so did this other guy that also goes there regularly.

 

I thought I could rekindle some feelings for my Ex, so I went to his place twice and spent some time with him intimately, but we didn't have sex even though he wanted it. Meanwhile the other guy asked me out on a date and I went out with him last week and really liked it. We "dry humped" afterwards at his place.

Well yesterday I called my ex to give him some information on a travel agency he had asked me about and NOT expecting him to be at home (I was only planning on leaving him a message as I was sure he was at work) he answered and told me he was free and asked if I wanted to come over last night. I made up some excuse that I couldn't, but maybe I could come another time. Actually last night I had another date with the other man which ended up in us having sex (we used protection) at his place. I really enjoyed it.

 

Anyhow, this morning I get a message from my ex asking if I am going to the dinner tonight because afterwards he is free because his daughter is not coming over. I don't know if the other man will come to this dinner tonight because he is really busy with work (building), but if I show up and BOTH of them are there I will feel very awkward!!

What should I do? I feel very guilty about having given hope to the ex because it is so clear that I am more physically attracted to the other man even though I know my ex better and have more to talk about with him.

WHAT SHOULD I DO??

[Moose]

Well, your ex is your ex for some reason right? Has he or you changed enought to rekindle or are you both just physically attracted to each other....what about this other guy too? The first nigh you, "Dry Humped" , then had the real deal the next night......is this other guy just in it for the sex?

 

I wouldn't chance going to dinner at all until you re-evaluate what you are going to do......good luck.....