perdida Posted June 4, 2004 Share Posted June 4, 2004 WHAT DO I DO???? I usually talk to my ex almost everyday cuz he calls me and I call him when he tells me to call him back, etc.... The thing is that yesterday evening I got this urge to not talk to him cuz I dunno, I guess I've been feeling strong and convinced that I shouldn't talk to him anymore these days. So I put my cellphone on vibrate and put it away in my purse so that I wouldn't be tempted to pick up. So when he called me last nite he got voicemail. A little while ago he sent me an email asking why I haven't been picking up his calls lately..that he's curious and he added a sad face =(. Turns out he not only called me last nite, but he also called this morning and also about an hour ago... After seeing this email it makes me feel a little weak cuz then it kinda means that he does care... or could it be that maybe he cares but only for his own egotistical reasons?? I just hate this cuz if I say something like "I don't wanna talk to you anymore" then he'll go away...maybe....and it scares me... I'm such an idiot... or if I say the truth "I just haven't been paying attention to my phone" then what'll he think and do...will he stop calling me as much... so what should I say that will not totally push him away, but that will still strike him and show him that I'm slowly drifting away and getting tired of waiting for him....???? HELP!!! Link to post Share on other sites
sweetie7 Posted June 5, 2004 Share Posted June 5, 2004 I wish I could give you advice but I'm in a similar situation! For a little while I would answer when he called me but I would be kinda short and preoccupied and I would never call him. I know, it's playing games but sometimes you gotta. I think the best is to act like you're moving on. That's what I did and I think it's making him do a lot of thinking. He saw me out with other guys and it's driving him crazy. Maybe he's just jealous but maybe he's realizing what he's losing and that I'm not gonna sit around and wait for him. So if I were you, I wouldn't tell him you don't want to talk to him, just say you don't really care either way! Good luck!! Link to post Share on other sites
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