I wrote to tell him I still liked him....no response?

[dlb311]

OK..I have posted plenty of times. First my ex and I broke up and I was so despret that second chances happen and they work out. Then I met a guy I really liked and I was in fear of a rebound. Then my ex came back and everything was wonderful the new guy told me the timing was off so I went back to the ex. Everything was great with the ex till he bought a house with his best friend (a guy). But the friends he was hanging out with were for the most part single. He then started getting distant again. And after 3 month of being back together he said he wants this just not right now. So I walked away. The friend (the new guy) had become a good friend of mine that I talked to on a daily bases. It was cool, when we broke up he asked if there was anyone I was going to date? I said umm to early for me to think you think? and a week later he asked me out to the movies. And from then on we were together for about a month and a half. Went on vacations, fun nights out on the town, and comfortable cozy nights at his place just watching TV. He has a lot of baggage from his ex..she left him and two month later got engaged and now she is married. He was with her for 3 and half years. Anyway make a long story short. He told me I was a great girl and everything he wanted in a girlfriend but doesn't want to hurt me and he doesn't trust himself. So we hung out a few more times. But then he stopped calling me and asking me to hang out completely. But I would see him on line and he would always IM me.

My ex called a friend of mine and told her he made a big mistake he was stupid and misses me and wants me back. She told him I was happy and to just leave me be. But he has been calling allot. I don't answer my phone, but yesterday he called my work and I have been answering the phones here at work so he got me. And the frist time he called my work I told him to never call again and hung up. But he had been calling and calling so I decided to hear what he had to say this time. It was weird...he was sad and down..he said he missed me and wanted to see how I was. I asked how he was he said ok..I guess. He then asked if I would met him for coffee sometime. I told him if he had something to say to me I would met him for coffee otherwise...I can't just sit like old friends over a cup of coffee. He said he understood and that was it he said ok and then bye. So there is that situation. I don't know what to do..I am leaving it alone but if he really wants to met I have nothing nice to say to him. But I know that I am lonely and I thought I was going to marry him. Now I know I am not but I just lost the other guy.

So the other guy...we stopped contact or I did for about two weeks. I needed sometime to recupe. But this past Sunday he texted me to see how I was and asked me to come see him and then to call him But I never did. Then we chated this week on the internet. I felt like I needed him to know how I felt. So this afternoon I wrote him an e-mail while he and I were chatting. about how my feelings for him haven't gone away yet but I am working on it. But I don't want to let them go. But I enjoyed spending time with him and I wished he didn't have to end. I was nice but just telling him that I still liked him. He never responded to me. He signed off and that was it. I am way bumbed now! I don't know if he is thinking about what to say or just ignoring me. I have no idea.

I know for both guys its time to walk away completely but its so hard and I feel so down I can't shake this feeling. Any wise words to help me wake so I can realize these aren't the last two guys I will like.

Thanks I could really use to help here.

[simplybrill]

ok sorry, your message was so long and broken up, its crazy to read unless you have an hour to sit with it. Break it up with paragraphs and try posting again.