crstl33 Posted June 5, 2004 Share Posted June 5, 2004 Here I am confused even more. 2 days ago my husband came over, it was late, but we were able to talk. But this time was different for me. I actually let him do the talking since he was the one that left. I found out about how he was feeling. I even found out about myself. All I can say to him was I was sorry, he was right. We hugged, we kissed, we even made love. I woke up next to him the next day, I told him I loved him. I really didnt get the say responds. He went to work, and as the day went on I never heard from him. Morning time came, I was alone again. Wondering why. One night, and not the next. So I called him. He had such a attitude. It made me feel like what ever we talked about really didnt matter. On the phone he did say, things wouldnt change over night. The problem, I know that. But if there was a chance he did want to work it out, why not call, or come around. I dont feel like I should have to do all of the calling. What do you think? I kinda feel used since I did make love to him. But I guess if I only had one chance that night I gave it all that I had. I wished it wasnt like this. Love does hurt. Link to post Share on other sites
scared2Balone Posted June 5, 2004 Share Posted June 5, 2004 Amen sister!!...LOL. Honestly, if he really loved you and cared for you like he should, this man would have told you what his intentions were as soon as he came over. I wouldn't call him, give him the opportunity to give you a call as hard as it may be(trust me I know how hard it is not to call the man who you thought you would spend the rest of you life with). If he doesn't call you keep in mind that if you treated him good he will see it one day, maybe not the day or time you wanted but one day he will, in the meantime do things for yourself, and in the end you may come out realizing after the pain starts to fade away that you are much better off without him and someone who is better for you. The worst thing you can do is sit around and analyze every action he makes and word he says. Good luck! Jennifer Link to post Share on other sites
ThisGirlNameKD Posted June 5, 2004 Share Posted June 5, 2004 Sounds like he got horny, played on your emotions and hit it and left. Link to post Share on other sites
Bobbie Posted June 5, 2004 Share Posted June 5, 2004 I've had sex with my ex-h twice, it was great but left us both confused...we talked about it and decided that much as we love each other and enjoy each other, we're not going to do it again unless we are ready to re-commit to the relationship ( unlikely ) There's a lot talked about sex, and people do all kinds of things they didn't mean to- prioritise sex before self-respect, have sex on first meeting someone, be sexual when they're not comfortable: but at the end of the day it's what works for two people and leaves them both feeling well and whole which is healthy. Anything else is just experience....so don't beat yourself up, just learn from it and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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