Loss Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 Hi everyone, I was reading some of the topics on this forum and some of them really interested me because I have similar kind of problems and concerns. I wanted to share them and ask for advice and discuss these issues with you guys. I guess a little about me: I'm 28 years old but I think look a little younger than my age. I'm a good guy, not anti-social but incredibly shy and very sensitive. It's really easy to hurt my feelings and I could lose sleep over almost anything. It's been few years since I've been out of college and I have a job that I like. I live in NYC. The problem is I don't really have any friends or girlfriend. I don't know how to best explain it but I've met some good people in school/college and hung out with them but never stayed in touch when we went separate ways. I'm also a very late bloomer and wasn't really interested in girls until few years ago. I had few one night stands but never a real relationship, and sometimes I find myself getting very depressed about it. Over the past year or so I've developed a high sex drive, I guess because I've only been with girls on very rear occasions. Now that I'm out of college I don't know how to meet people, make good friends or meet that special someone. I tried going to bars and dance clubs but have had trouble meeting anyone. I'm not sure if it matters but because my parents can't afford to pay their rent I am living in their appartment and help them with rent and bills. I'm not ashamed that I live with my parents at my age, but I think if I tell this to a girl she would just laugh at me. I hope this doesn't sound really bad. I think I might write more as I think about it but is there any advice you guys can give me? If it wasn't for my job I think I would go crazy. Thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
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