me + best friend + long distance + love + his girlfriend = HELP!!!!!

[sexirubberducky13]

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Well i've known my friend for a while. He always protected me like a big brother. He always cared for me when i needed him most. He's such a great guy and naturally i started to fall in like with him. And him "liked" me too. Or so i thought. After i spilt the beans about having feelings for him he shamefully confessed he had a girlfriend. And i was fine with it at first. I saw how much she made him happy...then soon he'd only talk about her...and i started to become envious. I knew it was wrong but it was eating me inside..so i drowned my feelings by getting myself a boyfriend. Another mistake because now my friend felt comfortable about tellin me about his sex life with his new g/f. and now i definitly couldn't stand it anymore so i told him once again that i still cared about him. He then told me he still cares about me too.

 

So now we began to flirt and stuff again but occasionally he'd talk about his g/f and i'd talk about my b/f . Until one day he told me to go meet him to spend a day together by where he lives. *he lives an hour and a half away* but i went in spite of myself to go see him. So we flirted and began to hold hands and an occasional "i've missed you" then...he kissed me. and like if it were a movie his g/f calls his cell phone. Apparently she was leaving to georgia and that is the only time he was "able" to see me.

 

i felt so guilty about the kiss (i've never cheated on ANYONE) so i told my b/f and he dumped me. Served me right. But my friend never told his g/f and he is still currently with her. So i've become the distant other woman!

 

here is where everyone comes in!

what the hell should i do? what should i say?

 

HELP

[JustSoRight]

I know you like him, but do you want to be the "other woman"? I don't think you do.

 

I'd say stay away from the man until he is free to really be with you. But isn't it kinda suspicious that he wanted to be with you when she was away? Maybe he does this with others too? Think if it had gone farther if the gf hadn't called and then you found out he was still with her. What would you feel about that? Would you still want to be with a man that cheats so easily without guilt?