Timm_Rockks Posted February 23, 2012 Share Posted February 23, 2012 Well, i will try to keep it short.. I loved this girl with whom i was a really good friendship going on, i asked her out and she said we were just friends and she didn't want to make things ackward.. Well, i agreed with her that we would still remain good friends.. Now, you know as a guy friend, she tells me everything about her, her problems and stuff with an occasional flirting.. Now, i feel like i am being used as shoulder by her to cry on, the 'bpyfriend without benefits'.. So what should i do? Ignore her from now on? It might hurt her, idk what to do? P.s - She is my EX, a mere open relationship with no interest from her side. Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted February 23, 2012 Share Posted February 23, 2012 (edited) her "occasional flirting" will keep her happy, seriously OP, you've been a saint to listen to it, let her go i have male friends who have wanted to go out with me, a woman, after my refusal, i wouldn't dream of telling them about my "occasional flirting" move on, because worse, if you find someone new, this ex might have to leave or she could be pissing of your new girl who will wonder what the exe's motive is - in fact i'd like to know if in her shoes. situation on the same lines as talking about exes so too exes sticking around is a turn off Edited February 23, 2012 by darkmoon Link to post Share on other sites
Tethys Posted February 23, 2012 Share Posted February 23, 2012 I agree with DarkMoon. You should just put some distance between you and her if you have feelings for her. She might get upset if you tell her you can't be her shoulder to cry on any more, but she needs to find a new friend to tell that sh-t to. Link to post Share on other sites
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