PelicanPete Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 (edited) 1 & 2. A person doesn't take back another person close to a year later out of just pity. Pity gives no attraction, so you wouldn't be returning to someone almost a year later out of pity, especially if you're happy with someone else. Something else goin' on there. 3 & 4. Doesn't really matter what she's saying in this situation. She can say she loves you more than anything, but her decisions don't reflect that. It's not your responsibility to help her out of this one, she willingly chose to go back to this guy. She already knows how you feel, and if she really felt the same way, she'd be with you right now. My sister and I grew up with a drug addict/alcoholic dad. It makes everything confusing to the point of the confusing becomes the norm. One day everything seems fine, the next day you're scared for your familys well being. Humans are like cats and rely on habit. The habit becomes routine, and routine becomes natural. My sister dated a lot of low lives, and would turn away from those who showed genuine feelings for her, mainly because of the impression my dad left on her on how men should behave. However she moved out several years ago now, and hasn't dated anyone for quite some time, so don't take it word for word. I'm not gonna tell ya what to do, but just ask yourself is she really worth hanging around for? Surely you can just find someone new, so what is it about her that's worth hanging onto? She's already showed you how she feels, she's already showed you she ain't worth it. So just give it some thought. What is it she gives you that another girl can't? And uhh, all is fair in love and war. Guys can hit on other guys girls, and girls can hit on other girls guys. If your girl leaves you for someone else, then she was never your girl in the first place. Its important to see how your SO reacts to another person flirting or coming onto them. Sure you can see it as another person flirting with your SO as rude, or you can just see it as a test of whether your girl is actually feeling what she's saying. If you react for them, who knows, you may just be prolonging the inevitable. Edited February 27, 2012 by PelicanPete Link to post Share on other sites
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