anne1707 Posted February 24, 2012 Share Posted February 24, 2012 Has anybody else noticed that the OP disappeared over 24 hours ago Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted February 24, 2012 Share Posted February 24, 2012 Has anybody else noticed that the OP disappeared over 24 hours ago Right around the time she was called a troll. Interesting... Link to post Share on other sites
Nightsky Posted February 24, 2012 Share Posted February 24, 2012 Has anybody else noticed that the OP disappeared over 24 hours ago She's got a lot to think about. God forbid a 15 year old girl answers her phone when this man rings. Link to post Share on other sites
reallyhotguy Posted February 24, 2012 Share Posted February 24, 2012 How did he know it was a 15 year old? I once thought I was sexting with a 15 year old. Speaking of which, did you know that you actually get the bail back once you show up for trial? I thought those mother****ers just took your money! Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted February 25, 2012 Share Posted February 25, 2012 (edited) Do you think it is ok for a 35 year old to engage in sexual texting with a 15 year old if the 15 year old initiated it? Of course there are 15 year olds will seek out sexual attention from adults. It is the adult's legal responsibility (not to mention ethical) to stop it. If the 15 year old is your gf's daughter, the moral and ethical responsibility to stop any inappropriate advances is even stronger. No, I don't think it's ok, I think he was incredibly stupid actually. But I think it's an overreaction to end a perfectly good relationship over one mistake in the past like that, which is what many in this thread are suggesting she do. It was the ex-gf's bf's daughter on the ex-gf's phone. The entire story doesn't make sense. How did she even find out, I mean does this guy just bring it up. Is the ex-gf calling up all his new gf's and saying he flirted with a 15 year old on my phone who was my bf's daughter. It was sexting! Maybe she asked him about all his previous sexual experiences and like a dope he assumed she actually wanted to hear about all his previous sexual experiences. Men can be dense sometimes. Even if it was a troll I enjoyed the discussion it started. Edited February 25, 2012 by gaius Link to post Share on other sites
Author simplyhappy73 Posted February 27, 2012 Author Share Posted February 27, 2012 There was another post here on LS in reference to mine. But with the circumstances reversed. With a female sexting a 15 year old boy, and the responses made me fricken puke. It seems to be ok with a female doing so, but my bf is the scum of the earth? REALLY?! Well I had a long talk with my bf and I really do believe with all my heart that it was a huge mistake he made and he feels very remorseful about it. I do not see him ever doing anything like that again. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieInNYC Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 Question: Did anyone inform the child's father that she had been targeted by your boyfriend? If so, how is it that he's still alive? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 There was another post here on LS in reference to mine. But with the circumstances reversed. With a female sexting a 15 year old boy, and the responses made me fricken puke. It seems to be ok with a female doing so, but my bf is the scum of the earth? REALLY?! Well I had a long talk with my bf and I really do believe with all my heart that it was a huge mistake he made and he feels very remorseful about it. I do not see him ever doing anything like that again. Content is apparently key here because I doubt you'd be staying with this guy if he sent the girl pics of his junk or said he'd like to **** her or something. This leads me to believe (since you still havent mentioned what he said) it was flirting, not sexting and you induced all this drama unnecessarily. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 There was another post here on LS in reference to mine. But with the circumstances reversed. With a female sexting a 15 year old boy, and the responses made me fricken puke. It seems to be ok with a female doing so, but my bf is the scum of the earth? REALLY?! Well I had a long talk with my bf and I really do believe with all my heart that it was a huge mistake he made and he feels very remorseful about it. I do not see him ever doing anything like that again. Hey I think it was mostly GUYS saying it was okay for a 35 yr old woman to sext a 15 yr old boy. did any women say that? And the guys are saying that because they are nasty and are picturing a sexy hot for teacher type scenario. NEITHER is okay. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author simplyhappy73 Posted February 27, 2012 Author Share Posted February 27, 2012 Yea it was manly guys, but still. And I am about to find the content of the texting as we speak. I texted his ex. She is the one whom told me about it. I am assuming it was not that bad or her bf (the girls father would have killed him) She just told me he was "pissed" about it. Thats all. Link to post Share on other sites
Negative Nancy Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 I do not see him ever doing anything like that again. He will. Just next time, he's probably gonna target a 13 year old. I can't believe you're still defending that loser. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Nightsky Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 Yea it was manly guys, but still. And I am about to find the content of the texting as we speak. I texted his ex. She is the one whom told me about it. I am assuming it was not that bad or her bf (the girls father would have killed him) She just told me he was "pissed" about it. Thats all. Sexting not that bad? Hitting on a 15 year old... what does this mean. Did he ask the 15 year old to come over and spend time with him or if he could spend time alone with her. Was the sexting sending of naked pictures of eachother back and forth or sexual pictures? I just don't even understand what really happened. Link to post Share on other sites
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 it was his ex's new bf's daughter. anyways, I'm not trying to make excuses. We all have done stupid s**t when we're drunk. But this one is the lowest of the low I know. Does it mean he's a pedophile? I don't think so. A pervert? I have paid attention when we go out, he's eyes are on me. Most of the time lol Did he KNOW that it was this guys daughter? I'm sorry but guys can be SUPER competitive. I'd say there is a possibility he felt that it was allowing him to one up his xGF's New BF! Kind of like "F that guy type of thing". Nah you're good my friend. It caught on amongst a lot of the women and they started posting it as fact, it's easy to get confused. I get the impression that he didn't send pictures, just flirtatious messages as he categorized it as “innocent flirting” and you can't really say that about sending nude pics. Don't really know though unless the OP provides some more info. Even if it was super dirty talk... it's still just text messages. She probably hears worse from other kids at school. There was another post here on LS in reference to mine. But with the circumstances reversed. With a female sexting a 15 year old boy, and the responses made me fricken puke. It seems to be ok with a female doing so, but my bf is the scum of the earth? REALLY?! Well I had a long talk with my bf and I really do believe with all my heart that it was a huge mistake he made and he feels very remorseful about it. I do not see him ever doing anything like that again. Bottom line... it was a stupid thing to do, but not really a bid deal overall. You will find that the women of LoveShack tend to be exeedingly hypocritcal, and use double standards wherever it may suit their arguments. Link to post Share on other sites
mickleb Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 There was another post here on LS in reference to mine. But with the circumstances reversed. With a female sexting a 15 year old boy, and the responses made me fricken puke. It seems to be ok with a female doing so, but my bf is the scum of the earth? REALLY?! Well I had a long talk with my bf and I really do believe with all my heart that it was a huge mistake he made and he feels very remorseful about it. I do not see him ever doing anything like that again. I didn't even bother reading that thread. A 35 year-old flirting with a 15 year-old is wrong, male or female. And it's not just a little wrong, it's really wrong. This is why you've had such a strong response to your post, and why - as someone else said - you knew you'd get such a response. The above is more excusing for something that, even if you choose to overlook it, will bother you for your entire relationship with this man. You can pretend it wasn't a big deal because you 'love him' but it will eat at you, inside. Why? Because it's wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
kaylan Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 Lmao @ some guys here dismissing such creepy behavior. Only losers behave that way to kids. I guess it wont be a big deal if I meet your future daughters and try to sleep with them when Im 35 huh? Link to post Share on other sites
snug.bunny Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 Does it mean he's a pedophile? YES, it absolutely does... Link to post Share on other sites
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 Lmao @ some guys here dismissing such creepy behavior. Only losers behave that way to kids. I guess it wont be a big deal if I meet your future daughters and try to sleep with them when Im 35 huh? This guy wasn't trying to sleep with her. We actually don't really know the content of what he said. Personally, any 15 year old who is sexting with ANYONE shows a complete failure of her parents. Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 Lmao @ some guys here dismissing such creepy behavior. Only losers behave that way to kids. I guess it wont be a big deal if I meet your future daughters and try to sleep with them when Im 35 huh? You've said you don't flirt with women a lot of times even if they flirt with you and are afraid you might get an STD, so I'm not too worried about you. The only time I've ever heard guys say they don't sleep with women because they are afraid of getting an STD is when they interview virgins at scifi conventions. My sister is 14 and if she turned 16 and wanted to marry some way older guy I wouldn't have a problem with it. As long as I thought he was a decent person and it's what she really wanted. She has a mind of her own you know, isn't just some mindless flower that needs to be protected from every guy in the world. I have faith that if some guy she didn't want to talk to started flirting with her over the phone she would hang up. Link to post Share on other sites
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 YES, it absolutely does... A pedophile has a sexual attraction to pre-pubescent children not teenagers. Goodness gracious... Link to post Share on other sites
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 Lmao @ some guys here dismissing such creepy behavior. Only losers behave that way to kids. I guess it wont be a big deal if I meet your future daughters and try to sleep with them when Im 35 huh? At least some of us have an easy time admitting what we are... Link to post Share on other sites
Mutant Debutante Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 Did he KNOW that it was this guys daughter? I'm sorry but guys can be SUPER competitive. I'd say there is a possibility he felt that it was allowing him to one up his xGF's New BF! Kind of like "F that guy type of thing". Even if it was super dirty talk... it's still just text messages. She probably hears worse from other kids at school. Bottom line... it was a stupid thing to do, but not really a bid deal overall. You will find that the women of LoveShack tend to be exeedingly hypocritcal, and use double standards wherever it may suit their arguments. Dude, your super competitiveness theory does not make this guy seem more sympathetic, like you seem to think it does. A 35 year old man hits on and dirtytalks a kid because he's cranky with her daddy and that makes him an okay guy? WTF? This guy wasn't trying to sleep with her. We actually don't really know the content of what he said. Personally, any 15 year old who is sexting with ANYONE shows a complete failure of her parents. And okay, let's examine the other stuff said here. The OP says herself that the posters who responded to the other thread were mainly guys, but your response is that the women posters are all hypocrites with double standards. Then when a situation is laid out for you where a 15 year old kid is getting sexted by a 35 year old man, your response is that its her parents fault, so I guess that means it was her messing up and in the wrong, huh? The grown-ass man had nothing to do with it, blame the teenager and her whole family? Do you listen to yourself? OP, I never saw the other thread you're talking about, but I wouldn't give a flying F either way. It's gross and creepy to hit on kids, boy or girl. Half the highschool freshman class is 15, they barely know their asses from their elbows even if they act tough and like they know what's up. I'm ten years younger than your boyfriend and I know it's messed up, and you can bet he knew it to. Some part of him just didn't care. THAT'S your problem, no matter how you want to rationalize it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
kaylan Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 (edited) You've said you don't flirt with women a lot of times even if they flirt with you and are afraid you might get an STD, so I'm not too worried about you. The only time I've ever heard guys say they don't sleep with women because they are afraid of getting an STD is when they interview virgins at scifi conventions. My sister is 14 and if she turned 16 and wanted to marry some way older guy I wouldn't have a problem with it. As long as I thought he was a decent person and it's what she really wanted. She has a mind of her own you know, isn't just some mindless flower that needs to be protected from every guy in the world. I have faith that if some guy she didn't want to talk to started flirting with her over the phone she would hang up. When did I say I never flirt with women? I flirt with women all the time. Please quote me saying I dont flirt with any women. And I said I dont SLEEP AROUND because of fears of STDs. Many people dont sleep around because of this. It doesnt mean I dont have sex at all. But I do love your selective memory which puts words in my mouth. How about this...next time you try to talk about what I say or do...get your story straight so you dont look stupid...k? Just because you dont have a problem with your sister getting felt up by a much older dude doesnt mean most guys wouldnt. Fact is most men hate the idea of an older dude trying to creep on their sister or daughter. As men we know exactly what they want...and it aint love. Its all about sex. The fact of the matter is that adults are supposed to protect children...thats why the age of majority is 18. They are kids before that and cant take care of themselves. Most teenagers arent adept to making the best decisions for themselves. Weve all been there. We think we know it all, and that our parents dont know it all. Then we get older and start to say the same things our folks said...and then realize the wisdom in their words and guidance. You must be very naive to think a teenage child year old dating a man in his 20s or 30s is healthy for a young persons development. Those relationships are usually all about the man wanting sex, and him being in control of the relationship since hes dealing with a naive child. Dude, your super competitiveness theory does not make this guy seem more sympathetic, like you seem to think it does. A 35 year old man hits on and dirtytalks a kid because he's cranky with her daddy and that makes him an okay guy? WTF? This. What a theory huh? So a guy behaves like a creepy loser who preys on young girls because he dislikes their fathers? Ok...suuuuure lolz At least some of us have an easy time admitting what we are... Huh? Edited February 27, 2012 by kaylan Link to post Share on other sites
Author simplyhappy73 Posted February 28, 2012 Author Share Posted February 28, 2012 Well his ex has not texted me back. Last time she was texting me a storm telling me how "bad" he is, and all the stuff he did wrong. But her lack of response to this question, and her bf's (girls dad) lack of killing my bf, leads me to believe it was not that bad. Maybe flirting, which my NO means is ok. But being his drunken state and his remorselessness, I believe he will not do again. You all can think I am stupid, thats fine. Link to post Share on other sites
Anela Posted February 28, 2012 Share Posted February 28, 2012 There was another post here on LS in reference to mine. But with the circumstances reversed. With a female sexting a 15 year old boy, and the responses made me fricken puke. It seems to be ok with a female doing so, but my bf is the scum of the earth? REALLY?! Well I had a long talk with my bf and I really do believe with all my heart that it was a huge mistake he made and he feels very remorseful about it. I do not see him ever doing anything like that again. I don't remember women saying that they would do such a thing. I heard earlier on, that over seven-thousand women have been convicted of preying on a male student, over a period of time that I've forgotten. I'm both amazed and disgusted by that, as well - that it was happening, not that they were convicted. Link to post Share on other sites
kaylan Posted February 28, 2012 Share Posted February 28, 2012 I don't remember women saying that they would do such a thing. I heard earlier on, that over seven-thousand women have been convicted of preying on a male student, over a period of time that I've forgotten. I'm both amazed and disgusted by that, as well - that it was happening, not that they were convicted. Teacher Sex Offender List: 25 Female Teacher and Student Sex Crime Scandals | Lawfirms.com Women are getting just as bad as guys it seems lolz. And its odd because a few of those women are pretty attractive, so its not like they didnt have older options. Link to post Share on other sites
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