cookieninja Posted February 25, 2012 Share Posted February 25, 2012 Hi everyone. O.k so i will try and make this short and sweet! I have known her since she was 17 and now (30) and im 32. For the last 6.5 years we haev been dating, in love etc... She has a child that is goig on 7 . so i have been there since pretty much when teh child was born. When we started going out we moved ion with eachotehr about a year into it. It didnt work after 7 months or so of living together we moved out but stayed friends and continued dating. Our relationship has been up and down but we are in love and continued to be strong. Fast forward... she has gone thru emotional damage living with her (crazy) mother and always being put down by her family..etc. and also dealing with her baby daddy as being a single mom is hard these days apparently. but we have been doing great and her daughter loves me alot also! Anywho...about 2 years ago i asked her to move in with me and try it agian and this time it will be diff casue we learned from our mistakes teh first time and so on..... She said NO! and continued to live at her motehrs palce in the basement. So i was like fine whatever and continued on with work and decised to enroll in school and upgrade my ed. About a year ago she asked me to move in with her and so on.....lol I was like NO! wtf! I cant right now wait! ..... then 4 months after I said no she tells me im going OFF birth control casue of whatever stupid reasons..... oh boy! So i didnt think anythig of it. Then recently about 1 month ago shes like BAAAAM! Im pregnant.. (now before you all say well your an idiot you didnt see that coming ) please hear me out! I was liek o.k And she started acting all starnge, Shes liek what yo uwanna do, step up to the palte and MOVE OUT with me we gotta get a place what you gonna do! so I was like sure lets talk about this what ever you decide I am happy with etc... I choose my words wisely but I know a guy can never say the right thing in these situations... OH and bydaway.. it happened so fast in like 2-3 weeks... I never actually saw teh preg TEST.... never! and she got really upset casue I said I wasnt gonna move in with her right away BUT keep the baby I want to be in the childs life... SHE freaks out 1 week later goes and has an abortion ( 1 month pregnant) and im an f-ing jek..a hole and dumps me , and changes her cell number and home number and tells me to leave her alone.... WOW! I have been dationg her for liek 7 years and have history with this girl what gives! I dont get it..... I love her but clearly I have to move on cause something doesnt add up..... anywho I wanna thank you all for your responces and ideas in advance any thousght would be greatly appreciated thank you! : ) Link to post Share on other sites
standtall Posted February 25, 2012 Share Posted February 25, 2012 Try cleaning up your post to make it more readable and you may get some posters to respond. It gave me a headache to read it. Link to post Share on other sites
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