WhatcanIdo Posted February 26, 2012 Share Posted February 26, 2012 Hello, i am a Austrian who has lived for ten years in England and have returned to Austria two years ago. When i was marrying in 2004 i met an English Lady few weeks before. She was then married as well. She is five years older than me and has three kids. For three years i was visiting her regular at her town, where i moved then permanently in 2007 with my wife. In the next three years i should fall for her very much and in 2009 we decided to tell our partners about us. My wife decided to not leave me, but left me then alone in the town for three months. The English Lady meant to me that her husband decided to leave her because of me and i asked her in the three months i was alone to move to me, which she did not do. I decided then 2010 to go back to Austria and work on my marriage. Last Year i met the English Lady again. She since has separated with her husband and lives with her son in a flat. In the last months we have spend several holidays together again and she says she want to be with me. However, she has since separated with her husband a relationship with one or more man, which she claims she does because she has no choice in maintaining her life. I not feel good really about the whole thing but at the other side of the coin, feel want have her near to me Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted February 26, 2012 Share Posted February 26, 2012 Tell your wife and go be with the other woman. Your wife deserves more than what you have given her. Link to post Share on other sites
Emme Posted February 26, 2012 Share Posted February 26, 2012 (edited) My wife decided to not leave me, but left me then alone in the town for three months. The English Lady meant to me that her husband decided to leave her because of me and i asked her in the three months i was alone to move to me, which she did not do. I decided then 2010 to go back to Austria and work on my marriage. The both of you were at a point where you could be together. Her husband left her and your wife needed space to think or left you. I'm not sure if you wanted to use this woman for only 3 months while your wife was gone or you wanted to begin a relationship with her. Either way she turned you down COLD. She said NO to you. Now that's the facts. FACT!. Now explain to us please why would you want to be with a woman who didn't want you when the time came? Why would you want to be with a woman who has made it known to you that she's willing to lay on her back for a man because she has to maintain her lifestyle? These are your words However, she has since separated with her husband a relationship with one or more man, which she claims she does because she has no choice in maintaining her life. Am I reading it wrong. Why would you want that? Are you wealthy enough to maintain her lifestyle as well as your family? Are you ready for her to walk away from you if she finds another man who can take care of her better than you can? I need you to think. Get a piece of paper and write it all down so you can see whats happening. Then come back and tell us if you think you are in a good position. You want her close to you tell her to send you a picture. Edited February 26, 2012 by Emme Link to post Share on other sites
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