Update

[scared2Balone]

Well after meeting my ex Friday, he showed up here at the house on Saturday to get some of his things. He would not take everything because he said he wanted to work things out. Two guys were supposed to come to install cable and when they showed up he got really jealous. He stayed for a while longer as we discussed our problems then he left. Like ten minutes later he was calling to tell me how much he loved me and how hard it was to leave knowing that he wasn't just going to work or to the store or something. Then last night he called and wanted to go get something to eat, I said yes. We talked about our problems, he said he wanted to work things out but he wasn't ready to come home yet. I told him that this is a marriage we aren't dating, he's not going to go out and have his fun while I sit on the sidelines. After we got home he stayed for a while, on his way out he asked if I was mad I said no but I am not going to work things out with him at his dad's, he needs to be back home if we are going to try to work things out. He said nothing and walked out, and so far he hasn't called, I wouldn't answer if he did because at this point I don't even think I want to work things out for him to just walk out once again a few months down the road.

[ready2moveon26]

Something very similar happened to me a few years ago. My husband and were seperated for four months until he came back to me the day after Christmas. He said he had the worst Christmas of his life and I did too. We got back together and things went right back to normal. Until we seperated again about four months ago. I do love him and do want him back, but I can't let him hurt me over and over again. I don't want to be his wife when it is convenient for him, I want to be his wife all the time. I am trying to move on and it is the most difficult thing I have ever had to do. Keep me updated because I know how you feel.