rd1978 Posted June 7, 2004 Share Posted June 7, 2004 she keeps trying to get ahold of me? i dont get it i do NOT cocntact her and havent in weeks and when i did it was to get back to her while she was trying to get ahold of me,,,,, she wanted to be single,, and there is anothyer guy who has been asking ehr to hang out blah blah,,,,, we have been togethor 5 years it was bolth our first serious relationship etc etc.. but we bolth have alot to learn about relationships,, and plus she is very very insecure and it tends to come out in her attitude towards me,,,,, so i know she has been hanging out with this other guy,, BUT she has NO clue what ive been up to,, and i also told her to do whatever it takes not to call so she called for a week straight after that conversation even an hour after we had it,,,, but i didnt awnser... was that being stupid? IT's been like 3 weeks since i last saw her and 6 weeks since we split,, her friend instant messaged me about 3 weeks ago and said hi and what not,, i havent spoken to this girl in like a year so that was weird,, then this girl calls me out of the blue like 3 days later,, she is looking at a car and wanted to know if it was a good deal,, i got this on a voice mail and i called her back but she never called me back,,,{ i thaught that was weird because the EXACT same thing happened last time we broke up,, and i have a new # now so she had to get my number from my ex} then she started instant messaging me i didnt respond to anything and finally 1 day i did, and i responded after she put up an away message so i didint have to talkt o her,, and she called me that night,, then she called me the next day and i awnsered,, i acted like i didnt lloki to see who was calling ,, we talked for like 3 minutes she was SOOO excited that i awnsered she was estatic,, but i cut it short and told her i had to go becaus ei was busy which i was .. then told her that ill talk to her some time i guess,,, { so for all i know she may think im with someone else,,,} i didnt hear anything form her after that for 3 days then i was online and she started instant messagin me but i didnt respond,, it went hello,, then like 5 minutes later she wrote i have a question for you then i shut off my comp,,,,,, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO i been doing fine with the situation,, and i do know this girl loves me and i think she wants to be with me but needed to break things off so we could reashure ourselves if this was meant to be,, and to hang out with other people,,, but i did tell her its not fair to other people if we are still talking and seeing other people..... Link to post Share on other sites
SGB8098 Posted June 8, 2004 Share Posted June 8, 2004 Above all be honest. Not blunt. Set things straight. Gently confront boht th x and her friend . it sounds a bit confussing, but hey thats how some things in life are. Just deal with situations like this subtle, honest not too caring, casue if you react too caring she'll think you still care for her in that manner. Hope this helps. Link to post Share on other sites
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