chevy Posted June 8, 2004 Share Posted June 8, 2004 I left my former girlfriend for an ex girlfriend of my ex best friend, which my ex best friend now hates me for but I don't care. Anyway, her and I have been dating now for about a year and pretty much the entire time I was in this new relationship I was still seeing my ex girlfriend and at the time she didn't know I wanted to be with this other person until about a month or two ago when she had wrote me an email stating that she wanted to see other people which really pissed me off and then she tells me that I can't see my son that we have together. But just recently I had learned of the fact that the girl I am with now is pregnant but now she has changed her story from being pregnant to not sure if she is pregnant but if she is, she thinks it may be her ex's whom she also has two twin girls with as well. After hearing that she could be pregnant by one of her ex's I have felt the need to want to patch things up with my ex. What I want to know is if this girl I am living with is cheating on me or not? She also cheated on my former best friend and that is how she got pregnant by one of her ex boyfriends. Also should I give my ex whom I want to patch things up with another chance and just let the other relationship slide or what? I am supposed to give the girl I am living with now an answer by the end of this month if I plan to stay with her or not. What should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
amanda25 Posted June 8, 2004 Share Posted June 8, 2004 Im sorry, but WHY would you date your friends gf to begin with?? Thats just wrong in the first place..And then you are cheating basically, but are worried she is cheating? That makes no sense..Im sorry if this sounds rude, but you were wrong to begin with for doing that to your friend..If she has cheated on you, its not right, but who is anyone to judge, youve been "seeing" your ex you said for the past yr..You are just as wrong as they are.. Link to post Share on other sites
pocoestrella Posted June 8, 2004 Share Posted June 8, 2004 [font=times new roman][/font] Chevy, This is kind of a difficult post to understand... let me see if i've got this... You + mother of your son= relationship You + ex friends girlfriend= currant relationship You + mother of your son + ex friends girlfriend= you've messed around with both of them Now you wonder IF the currant girlfriend (not the mother of your son) is cheating on you? Well Chevy considering she's told you she is pregnant but ISN'T sure IF it's your child or not... I don't think there is any doubt she is cheating on you... You wonder if you should patch things up with the mother of your son... well does she want to patch things up with you? and are you only wanting to be with her now because you feel the other girl is cheating on you (by the way what would make you any better you've been cheating on her with your ex as well right?) I don't know Chevy... this just really sounds like a huge mess! If this other girl isn't pregnant then I can only hope if you do stay with her you will use birth control in the future not to mention protect yourself since obviously this isn't a monagomas relationship... Regardless of what you choose to do... do it for the right reasons... like you really want to do the right thing for one girl or the other... this isn't okay especially since there are kids involved all the way around. Good Luck Link to post Share on other sites
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