LILUIL Posted June 8, 2004 Share Posted June 8, 2004 Hi guys, I haven't been in Loveshack much the last couple of days..... something happened... lol I met this guy online through matchmaking site and the two of us are contacting each other for at least 6 hours a day..... 3 hours online in the morning and night...... he's from USA and I'm here it one corner of Asia. We've got the sames interests and goals for life, same religion and faith..... only thing is, this would be my first LDR. That's why I'm posting under the LDR thread. Advice, advice.... as much as I can get... Here's what's happening to us : 1. He's making a trip to see me in a few months time and shortly after I will be visiting him in US (exciting but scary) 2. It's almost 20 days, he's talking about marriage, and seems pretty impatient about it. I take it jokingly, OMG I cant take him for real and all can i? I dunno 3. We're in a 'relationship'..... erm.... he asked, i said yes..... ermm...... now what? I feel funny, you know what i mean? We have never met face to face, will most likely not get a chance to date like normal unless I go work in US or he comes here. Sigh! Webcam, Broadband, IDD calling cards by stacks, Wi-Fi on handheld...... hahaha.... i'm starting the collection now...... I really dunno what to expect.... I'm not even sure if I should believe I'm in a real relationship. Am I crazy? Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted June 8, 2004 Share Posted June 8, 2004 Love is crazy, love is blind... if you love him, you're in a relationship alright. But, girl, what's wrogn with your head? Don't even joke about mariage. Ever! Visit him away, go to the US, let him come to Asia, etc etc but don't rush into anything. I know it is very very flattering, I mean if things go like very very well, it's ok for the thought to cross yur mind and phantesize about it. Bit a little, you know? I wish you loads of happiness, have fun, but don't take it that seriously that soon . Enjoy the ride and than see where it's taking you!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author LILUIL Posted June 8, 2004 Author Share Posted June 8, 2004 i'm not sure about love at this point........ i do love a lot of things about him, his way of thinking, his quirks, his funny side, but I don't think I really love him as a person..... not yet at least.... I'm kinda praying hard that he will not say those three words too soon..... he says he's found The One, I'm really skeptical yeah. I do agree we clicked immediately and we chat like old friends from day one and he does understand me better than the people I can see everyday..... I'm so skeptical and untrusting and sigh! and wishing hard we had the chance to date properly..... weird thing is I'm kinda enjoying this...... Haha.... late at night when I need some one to talk to.... he's there coz it's day time for him... lol. Its funny! Like, it works but in a weird way. Im rolling my eyes at myself.... Link to post Share on other sites
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