Love_sick_me Posted March 5, 2012 Share Posted March 5, 2012 Last weekend, I went to a restaurant with some friends. My ex showed up with his new person and a group of our common friends. I didn't think much of it when he was there. I still had a good time with my friends and still casually conversing and laughed a lot. I thought it'd be courteous to go say hi, at least to that group of common friends that we both know. At the end of my meal, I walked over to say hi to everyone. It just seemed like every at the table had a group think mentality. Most people acted really defensively, and I know they don't act like this when they're not around him. I ended up chatting with one of the people he was sitting with. One of the other guys taunted me by saying :"well, you're here, by coincidence?" as if I was stalking down my ex. I just feel like I shouldn't have to explain myself as to where I wanna go and where to eat. The entire time my ex didn't bother making eye contacts with me. Which I expected. What surprised me was our common friends mostly did the same ( expect for the one who ended trying to chat with me). I just felt it's really petty. I harbor no resentment for him, even though he's the dumper. It bothered me more that our common friends treats me like a totally different person when they're hanging out with me. I guess it's just another part of the break up, your friends get awkward when you're both around. Oh well, this is more of a rant. Thanks for reading. Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted March 5, 2012 Share Posted March 5, 2012 They came with him and likely just wanted to keep away from the drama. How are these friends when you guys are out together without him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Love_sick_me Posted March 5, 2012 Author Share Posted March 5, 2012 They came with him and likely just wanted to keep away from the drama. How are these friends when you guys are out together without him? They're like how I normally would hang out with them. Joke around, and stuff. I never talk about my ex with them. I just treat them like how I would normally treat them. They do the same. I have hung out with this group of people before, and most of them knew me before they knew my ex. Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted March 5, 2012 Share Posted March 5, 2012 Well they were in quite an awkward situation. If they are fine otherwise then they may have just wanted to avoid any of the crazyness that could have occurred. Link to post Share on other sites
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