Chs Posted March 5, 2012 Share Posted March 5, 2012 So i'm well past the healthy amount of time for healing from my last relationship, sheh as moved on to someone else and after not responding to a simple friendly attempt at contacting her one time i have dropped all thoughts of trying again and i have no need or want to hear from her anymore. However, i still feel really lonely and even depressed. I have been in this "hole" for now over 4 months and im getting really really worn down. I'm 19 years old, on my last year of my current education and **** is going pretty well for me looking from an outside perspective. I have my own condo, i work out 4-5 times a week, i spent alot of time on myself both on the outside and inside, i got friends to hang out with and so on. But still, every time i get home and sit here for more than an hour my mind starts wandering. I do _ANYTHING_ to stop it, but sometimes (like now) it just can't be stopped. Hell i started turning on my tv for sleeping so i wake up to the noise because the silent mornings are the worst part. I have for a few months now really attempted to go out and meet someone else because i'm tired of feeling so empty, but it isn't working out at all. I have made several approaches online and been going out up to 3 times a week the past month! I feel like i do everything, yet im still having absolutely NO luck while my ex ofcourse found someone else rather shortly after our break. It just gives a feeling of being left behind, and i can't stop wondering about how long it will take before im lucky enough to find someone that can make me move on completely. So what do you guys do in attempt of meeting someone else? And what is your approach on meeting new people and potential lovers. I know focusing on myself should be the best way of moving on but hell, it hasn't been working this far and i'm honestly on the edge here. Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted March 6, 2012 Share Posted March 6, 2012 I'd say you are not ready for anything serious right now as you know you have a hole, but you can not use another to patch it up. Your actions seem to be more out of "feeling left behind" than actually being ready to give yourself to another person. Stop worrying about what your ex is doing and start concentrating on yourself, life is easier that way. Link to post Share on other sites
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