shamone222 Posted March 6, 2012 Share Posted March 6, 2012 Hi, you can read my background stories but basically my ex dumped me 2 weeks ago today after an 8 month relationship, says its not working out for her. it was a healthy relationship and im still trying to come to terms with why she just suddenl ended it... havnt spoken much since, i only sent her a nice email to wish her well, also told her that it would be a bad idea to stay friends or meet up. well she hasnt replied and hasnt really showed any guilt so i took it as that was her definate decision and she wants nothing more to do with me. so i decided to start moving on, yes i do want her back but i cant hold onto false hope! so i got in contact with a girl who likes me and we went out. that night my ex shows up at the club, she knew i was going to it, but she still shows up with friends. i dont think she realised i as on a date but i think the word has spread out to her that i am. its nothing serious, its helping me get over the whole breakup. my question is, is 2 weeks too soon? and what would she be thinking? would she hate me for it or will this make her jealous? this is not a plan to get her back, i have no problem getting women on dates so why sit around waiting for an ex to call? Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted March 6, 2012 Share Posted March 6, 2012 my question is, is 2 weeks too soon? and what would she be thinking? would she hate me for it or will this make her jealous? this is not a plan to get her back, i have no problem getting women on dates so why sit around waiting for an ex to call? 2 weeks is not to soon. Everyone moves along at their own pace. Who cares if she gets jealous? It is your life. Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted March 6, 2012 Share Posted March 6, 2012 Only you can answer this question. Do you feel like it's too soon? My personal thought is that if you still want an ex back, you can't really give someone else a fair chance. Link to post Share on other sites
Author shamone222 Posted March 6, 2012 Author Share Posted March 6, 2012 thanks, im actually quite angry aswel. i told her that its a bad idea for us to be meeting up right now, she knows i dont want to see her aswel to get over the brekup, i told our friends that. yet she still came to the club and knew i was going. its like she's having her space but cant give me mine. the new girl knows iv been just out of a relationship, its only a bit of fun in my view and i think she feels the same, and im aware of leading people on, last thing on my mind right now is to get into a new relationship... Link to post Share on other sites
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