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Does she use me as a fallback guy?


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I met this girl when I was 14 and ever since then we have been off and on for 4 years. When she finds someone and they either leave her or she leaves them, I ask her to come back and she does and I guess its because she feel's lonley. I know she cares about me and will be there but I dont think she really is ever in love with me. We never last more then a few months. We broke up before many times, and some are because she said I treated her bad.

 

A little about her, she had a bad childhood, her dad mistreated her but he is better now and they are okay, her mother left and she always is insecure. She is a very pretty girl but wont accept it, she always puts on a fake strong attitude, when in reality, she is weak and always needs someone. She also use to cut herself when she was 14. So yeah, she isnt the happiest girl and never seems happy.

 

She just got out of a relationship about 1 month ago with a guy she was with for over a year and she loved him with all her heart and fell for him faster then anyone, but he left her because he didnt love her anymore. We never made any contact and she never talked to me when they were together...I know she still cares about him even after she said she will never trust him again and is trying to forget about him. And I know she was sad and I missed her and now we are back together. But even though we are having fun now I dont know if she wants her old ex or not, she deleted all of their pictures and all his comments on facebook,she never really talks about him and I think she is still somewhat heartbroken and is trying to forget about him, and is kind of using me to forget him easier.

 

So am I the fallback guy right now? And if her ex calls and tells her he still loves her and wants her back will she go back?

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