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my sister is pretending to be someone else online and is messing wih a guys feelings


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FaithInTheDark

Ok. so I am super close with my sister. She recently got dumped by her boyfriend and has been feeling lonely. i encouraged her to start dating and she has...but usually the guy moves on or doesnt ask her out again. and i think it has been taking a toll on her.

She confessed to me that she has this guy on her fb that she has a thing for..but he didnt seem that interested in her and she just got sick of feeling rejected all the time.

So she made up a fake account and has been pretending to me someone else and connected with the same guy again. she said at first it was just something to pass the time talking to him...but she said he told her how much he likes her and really wants to be with her. i told her u have to end it- the guy doesnt deserve to have his feelings messed with. i was with her and she told the guy she wasnt ready to have anything serious and she deleated her account.

but now i found out she re-opened it and has started talking to the guy again.for hours sometimes on chat..he tells her how he really likes her, wants to be with her and will drive down to meet her. I cant believe shes this pathetic...but i feel sorry for her...she must be so lonely. im trying not to judge her but it had to end. she said shes addicted to him. she wants to stop, knows it wrong but talking to him makes her feel better...but its like this isnt the real you.

maybe she should come clean with the guy and hopes he forgives her..but i doubt he would. what can i do to help my sister??!

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