Does someone have the courtesy to me?

[Sunnear67]

I don't know where else to go. I just hope at least some of you have the courtesy to read this.

A girl from my school added me on Facebook in early January and started messaging me, commenting on all my photos, etc...

Well anyway, I don't like to get attached so I never persued her. But she continued to hound me. We talked briefly throughout January, and early February. Then around February 20th we actually began to really talk. Anyway our conversations went so many directions and we talked for days, and hours on end. Some days even talking for seven or eight hours straight. Some days until four in the morning. We talked over the phone and through messaging. And of course saw eachother at school, but time was limited there. We sent a combined 12,000 messages in less than one week together. That's more than I have even sent my best friends onFacebook over three years. So anyway, one night (around 4:30 AM) she flat out told me that she "wanted me". She had told me before she didn't know if she wanted a relationship because she liked our friendship so much she didn't want it to end if "thing didn't work out" and she didn't want to "get hurt". I told her I would never hurt her. We continued to talk throughout that week. She would always wake me at 6AM with a good morning text and we would talk throughout the day. So then on Thursday we decide to "hang out" spur of the moment and we didn't really have any plans. So we kind of just drove around for an hour and a half. This is where things get strange. We had hung out before, and we had talked quite a bit right? Well later that Thursday night I could sense a change in her. Just the way she was talking and things she was saying. I didn't bring it up however until the next day. This is where she tells me this--------------------------------------------"if i tell you , you will try to change and they aren't flaws they are just things I prefer in a person I am pursuing. I think you are an amazing friend and I love ya the way you are in that way. Its too complicated to explain to someone... its just something I want in a guy I idk ''pursue''... I mean its possible things could grow but idk its complicated certain things attract me to pursue people, you have the intelligent sweet side but I like the game. I enjoy competition and more then just a win win... You don't have game. simple as that... I mean I like you I like who you are and how you treat me... confidence is sexy confidence is a chase and confidence is a game... Which you don't have."------------------------------------------------------------------------------So basically after she sent this she cut off all communication with me. What I find odd is that I'm not usually classified as a "nice guy" and I have no self esteem or confidence issues. I had no clue she wanted to "play the game" as most girls I've been with hate that and it drives them away. Really I'm confused as to why she acts like we aren't even friend now, and where and why exactly did she decide I was a "nice guy" and things shouldn't go any further. It seemed to just happen all of a sudden, and I'm just wondering why, and if in any way there is something I can do. Because like I said, I HATE to get attached because when they leave it sucks, and this proves my point further. I got attached again, and it f*cking sucks now. So if you had the courtesy to read this whole thing, please if you have any ideas, opinions, comments, questions, advice, or anything. Please post. Also you can email me directly at [email protected]