JasonRules Posted March 13, 2012 Share Posted March 13, 2012 Allow me to be blunt; your ex girlfriend is a slut of the 1st degree. She cheated on you twice and you're still talking to her and holding her hand while your current girlfriend is a million times better? First off you have no business seeing her since you're in a relationship, secondly even if you were single to even think about going back would be the stupidest thing ever. She cheated on your twice. You're 21 and 22. Forget about her, unless you like to torture yourself. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
leoc1973 Posted March 13, 2012 Share Posted March 13, 2012 I think you should break up with the new girl. You obviously don't have very strong feelings for her. Maybe you haven't been with her long enough but if you have and you are still secretly meeting ex's then there is just no spark there. Find someone that means more to you and I guarantee you won't even entertain the idea of meeting an ex. If you were to get back with your ex it would be even worse next time because you would pretty much be telling her that she can do anything she wants to you and get away with it. You will always be mr right now to her while she is out looking for mr right. I went through almost the exact same thing as you. Ex dumped me twice both times for someone else. And exactly 10 months later she is calling me. I am taking the other path tho. I know that I will always be second best to my ex even tho I was insanely in love with her. I think thats what bruises us guys the most is that we give our whole heart to a woman and get half of hers in return. Stay strong and stay away from her. someday you will look at her and just be disgusted at her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ryandxtreme Posted March 14, 2012 Author Share Posted March 14, 2012 Actually mate after my last relationship,I don't wanna become too much dependent on anyone as we guys usually become when we love a girl madly..my new-relationship is around 3 months old..and I'm trying to take it a bit slow..I love my new girl but I'm trying to keep myself in a position where I don't become insanely depressed again if my gf leaves me for some reason ! Initially though in this new relationship my sub-conscious used to compare this relation with the previous one..but now I have decided to measure it only with the yardsticks which I think matters to me rather than by the parameters of the past ... Link to post Share on other sites
Author ryandxtreme Posted March 14, 2012 Author Share Posted March 14, 2012 Allow me to be blunt; your ex girlfriend is a slut of the 1st degree. She cheated on you twice and you're still talking to her and holding her hand while your current girlfriend is a million times better? First off you have no business seeing her since you're in a relationship, secondly even if you were single to even think about going back would be the stupidest thing ever. She cheated on your twice. You're 21 and 22. Forget about her, unless you like to torture yourself. I am realizing it dude that I have acted like an ass .. :( Link to post Share on other sites
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