Bigdog740 Posted June 9, 2004 Share Posted June 9, 2004 Ive been dating this girl for a week who is head-over heels for me. She really wants to screw tonight. I want to be bf/gf with her. Will sex mess that up, it usually has in the past for me. TIA Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted June 9, 2004 Share Posted June 9, 2004 My personal opinion is to only have sexual relations with those you are in a relationship with. I usually try to look at it this way, could I have a baby with this person? And if not, don't do it. You don't know her well enough. Let respect build a foundation that could possibly last a lifetime. If you give it up to her in the first week, she's gonna think you'd do that with anyone else. Let her know that your bod, love and heart is special. It has to be earned, not just anyone can have it. She'll probably respect you more in the long run for that. Plus, after one week, are you even sure of the possibility of her having STD's? Let the interest build. You're giving it all away so soon. Let her be intrigued by you and keep her guessing. Don't give it all away so soon! Link to post Share on other sites
Pyrannaste Posted June 9, 2004 Share Posted June 9, 2004 I want to be bf/gf with her. Tell her Let her know she is important to you, and you are not only interested in having sex with her! Tell her you'd like to know her better, you are *very*interested in her, you really like her and that, as you wrote here, you are afraid sex will mess it up. Link to post Share on other sites
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