My Wife Calls Me a pervert for wanting sex every day

[Kuen]

Sex in every relationship is normal but doing it most of the time is hard to accomplish.

 

When spending time with your wife don't expect that it will end up with sex. Try to spend more time with her while she's doing the household chores or the things that she usually do.

[Radu]

I do not know how to work this out, my wife thinks I am a one track pervert who wants sex all the time.

 

The fact is we get very little time together and ours is a marriage that is 3 years only and no kids as of now. I get around her and yes I do like to make love to her however, she does not want it...she is completely non responsive and says she does not like to have sex daily.

 

Going by her I tried to keep away however it is weeksat a stretch when she does not feel the need for it and then suddenly one fine day its okay for her and then when we are about it I finish up too soon as its been too darn long a time I have abstained from it.

 

Is it me who is cracked up or then is there something that needs to be worked upon.

 

We have a lot of fore play and sometimes she is done while we are at fore play and once she has had it she does not want to go through it and I am left wanting and it just dies out.

 

Rest of the times its by the time she peaks I am done and over it and we go back to oral and masturbating till she gets around to it.

 

However the issue is that I cannot let off and want it every day while she is not at all interested in it for weeks.

 

ANY SOLUTIONS and ANY HELP will Really be appreciated. This is really getting to me and is affecting the relationship.

 

You 2 have different sex drives, yours is high while hers is low.

If she 'changed' it can mean one of 2 things :

1 - she has a new guy and she likes to screw him

2 - she was faking her sex drive at the beginning of the relationship to get married

 

Solutions ... well ... this cannot be changed so :

1 - 3yrs together is not much, so divorce in the first case

2 - either divorce or get a gf on the side with her permission (open relationship); i highly suggest you get a divorce in this case

You could also try to repress your sex drive to get it to her level, but long term this will not work and will in fact badly damage you (and her).

[Forever Learning]

I do not know how to work this out, my wife thinks I am a one track pervert who wants sex all the time.

 

 

ANY SOLUTIONS and ANY HELP will Really be appreciated. This is really getting to me and is affecting the relationship.

 

I think you have a normal man's sex drive. You should definitely try marriage counseling to see if you can iron out your sexual differences.

 

If you can't iron them out, then have the COURAGE TO LEAVE AND SEEK A DIVORCE. Life is too short! You can find someone else who has a similar sex drive as you do.

 

I was in a marriage that lasted 16 years with not much sex. It was my husband who had the low sex drive and was happy to go weeks without sex, sometimes months. I would have loved to have sex at least twice a week if not more. He just didn't have it in him. Don't stay, it's not worth it. I can only WISH I had left at year 3, the place you are currently in.

 

My advice would be different if there were kids involved, kids can wear you out and zap your sex drive, especially kids under age 3. But there aren't. Solve this before you bring kids into the picture. If you can't solve it, then end it. But don't suffer. Neither of you will be happy with all the resentment long term. Good luck!

[standtall]

Still feeding this troll I see. The OP checked out of LS in early March.