ScienceGal Posted March 13, 2012 Share Posted March 13, 2012 I wouldn't respond to that message. She could've made her statement without requiring you to respond "yes, I understand". Seems juvenile and controlling to me. I agree with the other posters, give her space. NC 100% Link to post Share on other sites
Author BMZMJ Posted March 13, 2012 Author Share Posted March 13, 2012 she is not controlling at all. I think she just wanted me to acknowledge the fact that i understood her decision and accepted it. but I haven't responded and I am not going to respond. By now she is probably checking her phone to see if I respond lol - i know her. the positive way in which we left things and me not responding to that message has actually given me a lot of 'power' and I feel very strong right now. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted March 13, 2012 Share Posted March 13, 2012 ...Watch it.... she will try again.... "did you get my message?" Or "Is everything ok? Have you replied? You do understand, don't you?" i'm watching this space.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author BMZMJ Posted March 13, 2012 Author Share Posted March 13, 2012 Hi Tara, she is not that insecure as you put it but I completely get your point. as I said...I am feeling so much stronger given the way we ended things and me withholding a response to her messages. I feel like I have 'power' back LOL I cannot wait to workout my chest at the gym tonight!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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