deeminor Posted March 15, 2012 Share Posted March 15, 2012 Introduced myself to a woman I have wanted to for quite some time. We hit it off well, basically. She was doing what seemed to be putting off some massive flirtatious body language. I've studied it for some time since it's a good indicator of interest, simple flirting, or just nervous. She was sitting in a chair and was fidgety. At times she would stroke her hair and move her head to the side, showing the neck. What really got me was she had her shoulders to the back of the chair and her leg crossed over to the side, as if to kinda show herself off. She was also locked on with eye contact and seemed engaged in our conversation. She did mention that we always crossed paths and said "glad to finally speak with you" a couple of times. I spoke with her again the next day but for a much shorter time and she said "good to speak with you again". I didn't get her number, as it seemed too early but I am tempted to give her mine (I've had success with giving out my number to girls). What do you guys think? I find body language interesting, but don't want to get my hopes up too high. I find this girl interesting. Link to post Share on other sites
JesseJames Posted March 15, 2012 Share Posted March 15, 2012 Being fidgety is a very good sign. Time to grab the lasso. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted March 15, 2012 Share Posted March 15, 2012 Don't ask her for her number, ask her if you could call her or contact her. Anyway, I just feel that asking for a number sounds less connective than asking if you can (or may) contact her and let her volunteer the means. I don't know why but I feel less open to rejection when I put it that way--it's just more personable and perhaps more confident-sounding. That's just me though. Link to post Share on other sites
Author deeminor Posted March 15, 2012 Author Share Posted March 15, 2012 Don't ask her for her number, ask her if you could call her or contact her. Anyway, I just feel that asking for a number sounds less connective than asking if you can (or may) contact her and let her volunteer the means. I don't know why but I feel less open to rejection when I put it that way--it's just more personable and perhaps more confident-sounding. That's just me though. Good point, I understand. Haven't spoken to her the past couple of days as not to overexpose myself or seem overbearing, but don't want to wait too long. Maybe Friday or Monday I'll move forward with the contact question. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted March 15, 2012 Share Posted March 15, 2012 Good point, I understand. Haven't spoken to her the past couple of days as not to overexpose myself or seem overbearing, but don't want to wait too long. Maybe Friday or Monday I'll move forward with the contact question. yeah, move fast and I hope you weren't too slow on the draw Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted March 15, 2012 Share Posted March 15, 2012 Next time you see her and you start chatting, tell her you were on your way to Starbucks or other coffee shop nearby and ask her if she'd like to go with you. If she says yes, then buy her a cup of coffee and sit in the shop chatting. If she says no, you can still chat a little...you're not rushing anywhere, just to the coffee shop. Make it fun, flirt, enjoy yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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