fernzie Posted March 15, 2012 Share Posted March 15, 2012 Me and My ex went out for 2 years, broke up for 6 months, then went back out for another 7 months or so. Throughout our relationship there has been ups and downs as any normal relationship should First time we broke up, I was new to it, I lost my virginity to her etc etc. I was very young to understand what happend, felt like it was out of my grasp, wasted my time crying, sulking and begging her back for the next 3 months, Like honestly I really couldn't concentrate in high school which is kind of pathetic I know, everyone then thought I turned into a phsyco xD . Met a lovely girl, we went out for 4 months until she broke it off. Throughout this time she was messing around with boys etc. still did hurt my feelings. We then did go out for another 6 months because we thought it was the 'right time' to since we both calmed down. unfortunatly we broke up again. The reason was mostly because of arguing , fighting, same old routine really. I did all my crying and sulking when we first broke up, I've learnt my lesson and never want anything like that to happen again. shes met all these new guys and I just feel so hurt because theres me like forever alone, lmao. I want nothing to do with her anymore, shes wasted most of my years. The thing is we kind of HAVE to see eachother everyday because of college and I can't stand her anymore, I always wonder what shes been up to etc. and end up asking Ive tried so hard like literaly delete her off face book , cut off any internet recources, try and stay away from her as much as possible. Any tips to just get over her, and not care, because she seeign a guy and I dont want thoughts rushing into my head. I jsut want to get on with life now but thinking of her is holding me back. help?!?! please? Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 You need to change your focus here. Stop worrying about what she is up to and focus on the things that you want to do. Stop asking her what she has been up to, because right now it will only bring you pain. Link to post Share on other sites
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