MarlaOryx Posted March 19, 2012 Share Posted March 19, 2012 My husband says the same thing. Player. Thank you for your input. Link to post Share on other sites
Parlous Posted March 19, 2012 Share Posted March 19, 2012 What's been posted here describes my ex's behaviour perfectly, he's like the poster boy for this whole G.I.G.S. thing. Completely different now from how I remember him, part of the reason I went NC with him. Each time we spoke after the break up just killed the memory of the man I thought he was, so no more, not until I've healed. And the more I think about our last few months together, the more it starts to make sense to me that this was always going to happen. His trigger happened to be his new job, all the "amazing people" there, maybe even another woman, who knows. He thinks he's on top of the world right now, its going to be a long fall back down some day. All the dumpee in this situation can do is focus on healing, on yourself, take good care of yourself and try and find happiness in something. I'm starting a new job tomorrow, getting a dog I always wanted, hanging out with friends more. Yes I miss him like crazy and it hurts like hell right now but if it's meant to be, he'll be back one day and be a better man, one that is sure of what he wants. Link to post Share on other sites
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