dassme Posted June 11, 2004 Share Posted June 11, 2004 Back once again with a question...... How would you react when your GF says this," I don't see us getting old together but I want to stay together and see where it goes." What exactly is she saying!? I really don't know and I'm totally confused! Should I bolt and leave her cause what's the point if she has that in her head! Or, continue and see how far it goes! Link to post Share on other sites
miz_barby Posted June 11, 2004 Share Posted June 11, 2004 Waiting to see how far it goes? What is she waiting to see what she can get from you? Okay did you ever discuss if you actually wanted a LTR or just to date? Maybe she was under the impression that you two were just dating (even though this to most people means relationship) or did you make it clear that you wanted to pursue something long term? Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted June 11, 2004 Share Posted June 11, 2004 Originally posted by AMD Back once again with a question...... How would you react when your GF says this," I don't see us getting old together but I want to stay together and see where it goes." What exactly is she saying!? I really don't know and I'm totally confused! Should I bolt and leave her cause what's the point if she has that in her head! Or, continue and see how far it goes! I would respond with, "I'm sorry. I'm not quite sure I understand what you are trying to say here. Can you rephrase that?" Because, honestly, I have no clue what this girl is trying to say by that. I can get a general hint of "I do not see you as a guy I would marry, but I don't mind staying with you for a while now.", but that's it. I might even go as far as to reply with, "I never saw you as marriage worthy material anyway." If you want to be sure about what she said, you HAVE to ask HER. SHE is the ONLY one who can give you an answer. Asking us isn't going to do any good really. ::shrug:: Link to post Share on other sites
easylover Posted June 11, 2004 Share Posted June 11, 2004 Originally posted by AMD Back once again with a question...... How would you react when your GF says this," I don't see us getting old together but I want to stay together and see where it goes." What exactly is she saying!? I really don't know and I'm totally confused! Should I bolt and leave her cause what's the point if she has that in her head! Or, continue and see how far it goes! What is bringing this up? Are you like "hey, baby, can you see us growing old together?" What exactly are YOU saying? What is there to be confused about. I don't even know what outfit I'm going to wear tomorrow and you want to know if I am going to be your old lady 50 years from now? That would be my answer unless this is how you propose a wedding engagement to someone. Please, buddy, be realistic here. Most guys don't even want to talk about marriage and here you are asking her if she'll be your old lady? You're being silly :-) Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted June 12, 2004 Share Posted June 12, 2004 I would point to the door and say, "Well, there's where I see YOU going." Link to post Share on other sites
roja901 Posted June 12, 2004 Share Posted June 12, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin I would point to the door and say, "Well, there's where I see YOU going." Link to post Share on other sites
tegteg Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin I would point to the door and say, "Well, there's where I see YOU going." BWHAHAHAHAHAHA thats good i like taht......... Ill hafta member that one...... DG Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 It all depends on the context of the conversation and, of course, it depends on your feelings. If you're raising the possibility of a long-term relationship with her and that's the best she can come up with, I'd probably borrow Kevin's line. If you're just talking about your relationship and there are no strings attached, why worry about it? Just see where it goes. Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkalot Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 I think I'd be really hurt...if I was in it for the long haul myself that is... Link to post Share on other sites
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