chelle21689 Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 My cousin is friends with his group of friends. She asked me if I wanted to go to Chicago with them in a couple weeks for the weekend. My boyfriend can't go because of work. My boyfriend said he would feel uncomfortable if I went without him because those are HIS friends. His friends are loyal and are like brothers to him. I think they're really cool so it's not about cheating or affairs. He just think it's weird if I went without him even if it's because I go for my cousin. I asked what if the guys' had their girlfriends go. He said he'd be fine. this bothered me so I attempted to try to understand his side and ask why it would bother him if I go. He said it'd just be weird that it's mostly his friends O.o I was like, "So if my cousin hung out with them and the group for a night and I decided to go...but you couldn't go then how would you feel?" he said "I'd be okay with it." I said "What's the difference?" he said "Weekend is longer" It frustrated me right there because it didn't make sense! We just ended the conversation because it was late. I upset him because he told me he was mad at himself now and we'd talk about it later Because he had to go sleep. Link to post Share on other sites
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