StunnaWitFlyIce Posted June 12, 2004 Share Posted June 12, 2004 For my entire 9th grade year i liked this one girl who i didnt talk to much. In April i gave her a poem to sorta break the ice that i liked her. and i was to shy to talk to her until recently and that was to ask her out. She said no and now that i look back i made all the wrong moves to advance towards her. I didn't ask her if i can get to know her better but just if me and her could hook up. i messed up to many times, and she is the first and only girl i will ever like, so i do wanna hook up wit her. i wanna know if i still had a chance to turn things around even after she told me NO? Link to post Share on other sites
packersgirl Posted June 17, 2004 Share Posted June 17, 2004 Well, you still sound young, and I guarentee that she isn't the only girl you'll ever like. When I was in Jr. High, I had a crush on a guy for the entire three years, I thought he was the only guy for me. Of course, I never told him and I did end up liking other guys... wait, make that LOTS of other guys throughout high school, even now! It may seem like she's the only girl for you right now, but that will change. As for you just wanting to "hook up" with her... I'm going to speak on behalf of most girls, we don't want to be used and the term hooking up can be viewed as that. Though, we can be hypocrites and want to hook up with a guy. If you really want a genuine chance with this girl, I think you should try and be her friend first. Get to know her, call her on the phone, take her out to lunch... show her that you are interested in her as a person. See where things lead you from there... Link to post Share on other sites
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