single_intelligent_lonely_gal Posted October 2, 2000 Share Posted October 2, 2000 Hello, I'm the one who posted earlier under "Guys won't give me a chance." I have a problem about this guy I like. I've known him for 2 years and I met him online. Stats: 26, Visually impaired (Legally blind), very cute, share a common passion, Lives 45 min from my house. I started having feelings for him about 2 weeks ago. I met up with him the last week of August. I was not attracted at the time, but now I am. I was dying to talk to him for a week before I had the feelings, then I called him, hoping I'd feel better. I didn't drop any hints at all, except calling him "cute" once or twice, we just talked. (Damn, I hope that didn't give it away.) Instead, the feeling grew and I feel horrible. He said he'd call Wed to chat. (That was last Mon.) and I haven't heard yet. (Big surprise.) I know most ppl have their own agendas and that he needs a little motivation to call, etc. He's kinda shy, too. I don't think he has a girlfriend, but I do know he's had them in the past, so he's not too shy to date. Help! I really like this guy, but there is not one guy I've expressed my feelings toward that hasn't burned me yet. I'm not lying. =( It's burning me inside. P.S. I've expunged all my "requirements" and now I've been just looking for someone sweet. See my new ad at: www.love.com and type in Capella57 for email address. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted October 2, 2000 Share Posted October 2, 2000 If you left your ad up after you began saying endearing things to him, that may have bothered him. Because of his visual limitations, there may be some associated fear of rejection due to this. He may need extra encouragement. If I were you, I would invite him to do something. Since he is legally blind, you would have to pick him up anyway. I am certain that this man is very sensitive to his disability so the more normal you treat him, the better he will feel. I am quite sure he is being very reserved because he has been hurt and rejected in the past and doesn't want it to happen again...at least not too soon. Now I hope I have not misread your post...so if you are the one who is visually impaired, please repost and make that more clear and I will rethink this whole thing in your favor. By the way, you ad is not up yet. I did a search and nothing came up on Capella57. You might want to check into that. Best of luck to you with your guy. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He'll love you!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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