jobaba Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 That had to hurt You'd think that eventually you'd lose interest in someone who doesn't return your feelings. But even now, you haven't lost interest. With so many women in the world, it is hard to understand why you keep her on a pedestal when she's never returned the favor. It's not hard for me to understand. Not at all. I have been where he's been through a lot more recently than I care to admit. There's nothing fun nor romantic about being a sensitive guy who gets his heart torn out by a woman who really just doesn't care. I don't doubt that for a second. As much as D and I got along and had fun, I know that she had girlfriends she would choose to hang out with over me. It was a really painful feeling knowing that my favorite person, would choose other people over me. I know you've already cut contact with her. You may have to resort to thinking bad things about her. Seriously. There's no way you'll let her go if you hold a lofty opinion of her. If she cared about you at all, she'd make an effort to be in your life. So start the trash talking in your head. Link to post Share on other sites
Jane2011 Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 If I lose a guy's interest (or never get it at all) and he remains single, I tend to stay hung up on him because his singleness allows me to fantasize that he has "issues" -- that he would be with me but his issues prevent him from having a relationship. It's always easier for me to get over someone if they're with a new person. The thought that they're making out with and being wonderful to some woman who isn't me...makes me mad and makes me want a new, different man fast. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 That had to hurt You'd think that eventually you'd lose interest in someone who doesn't return your feelings. But even now, you haven't lost interest. With so many women in the world, it is hard to understand why you keep her on a pedestal when she's never returned the favor. Yeah, it sucked but I definitely had my reasons. That's all I'm going to say about her. If I lose a guy's interest (or never get it at all) and he remains single, I tend to stay hung up on him because his singleness allows me to fantasize that he has "issues" -- that he would be with me but his issues prevent him from having a relationship. It's always easier for me to get over someone if they're with a new person. The thought that they're making out with and being wonderful to some woman who isn't me...makes me mad and makes me want a new, different man fast. Fine, one more thing. The bold is exactly how it was for me. She was single the entire time I knew her. Link to post Share on other sites
EmpoweredWoman Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 It's a lot easier for a woman to get over unrequited love than a man, and hence harder to put cold hearted women that have forgotten about you 4 boyfriends ago off to the side. For women, love is just around the corner. Meanwhile, for me, and probably most other men in this thread, women feel nothing but indifference, I'd rather be hated than be completely invisible I think. I do what I can, give them a look and try to make small talk, but I just don't have the looks to get women hanging on my every last weird, even if I'm reciting the most beautiful poetry known to man. I'm well-read and deep, can talk about virtually anything that isn't pop culture, but alas, pop cultures all bitches want to talk about. Link to post Share on other sites
Anela Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 That along with income level, feminism, prison sex, somedude and trolls. I only just saw this. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Anela Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 It's a lot easier for a woman to get over unrequited love than a man. This isn't true. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 It's a lot easier for a woman to get over unrequited love than a man, and hence harder to put cold hearted women that have forgotten about you 4 boyfriends ago off to the side. For women, love is just around the corner. Why? Because you say so? Meanwhile, for me, and probably most other men in this thread, women feel nothing but indifference, I'd rather be hated than be completely invisible I think. I do what I can, give them a look and try to make small talk, but I just don't have the looks to get women hanging on my every last weird, even if I'm reciting the most beautiful poetry known to man. I'm well-read and deep, can talk about virtually anything that isn't pop culture, but alas, pop cultures all bitches want to talk about. Well … it's pretty easy to see why no woman who wasn't unconscious or brain damaged would be interested in spending even a moment with you just from this one post alone. Bitter, self righteous, sexist, ignorant, hateful and conceited are not exactly sought after qualities by women of any age, weight, or political affiliation. Sorry. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Anela Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 I don't doubt that for a second. As much as D and I got along and had fun, I know that she had girlfriends she would choose to hang out with over me. It was a really painful feeling knowing that my favorite person, would choose other people over me. I know that feeling, too. I've had it happen recently, only with a family member, and it's more than spending time with someone. The relationship is almost destroyed. It's just one more heartbreak to add to the rest. Link to post Share on other sites
EmpoweredWoman Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 (edited) This isn't true. Yes, it is. Why? Because you say so? [/Quote] No, because common knowledge says so. How much time goes by for a woman under 40 before she gets hit on, regardless of her looks? Some more, some less, but all women get constantly hit on; IE men opening themselves up to them for a social interaction. Try being a man who isnt catching all the eyes as soon as he walks into the room. Hell, even if you ARE that man (I've been him here and there), as soon as a better looking/taller/richer guy comes in ALL THE WOMEN look at him and suddenly start clawing at eachother for HIS attention, in a split second. No woman wants the second best , much less the third, fourth, fifth or sixth. They want what everyone else wants, it's all about their social status and living vicariously through men. Bitter, self righteous, sexist, ignorant, hateful and conceited are not exactly sought after qualities by women of any age, weight, or political affiliation. Sorry. [/Quote] Madam Chaucer: Just because you have a plug-in Crystal Ball from wal-mart and call yourself Madam, doesn't make you clairvoyant. I don't interact with women by calling them names, airing out my dating issues, or by wearing my emotions on my sleeve. I doubt somedude does, and women probably like him less than me (despite him being mild mannered and an all around decent guy who tries ,compared to me who just doesn't give a flying **** what a 2 legged pussy thinks). Or Jobaba. Or SHaun-Dro. Or that autistic guy, what was his name, El Brujo. OR USMCHOKIE (who despite saying all the politically correct garbage you man-hating bitches want to hear, is just another guy who gets ignored by women like me) Or countless other guys on this forum who are totally and utterly invisible to women. I'm probably the only one of those, who authentically hates women , and I don't wear it on my sleeve when I talk to women. So give me a break. IT's not always the mans fault. I try to talk to women about things like nature, classical music, nietzsche, the Bhagavad Gita, Ancient history, meditation. world events. But women just can't keep up, they are simply too ****ing stupid to care, they just want you to take off your shirt and show them your abs, or simply be a lot taller when they are next to you in their 6 inch heels. That's the real issue, that's what I want to hold women accountable for, and that is why I hate women. Edited March 27, 2012 by EmpoweredWoman Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 ^^^^ Cry me a river, and also consider exploring your inner gay. Link to post Share on other sites
FrustratedStandards Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 One of my best girlfriends is like that. A man can be taller than her, but if he isnt a minimum of about 5 or 6 inches taller than she is, she rejects him. I told her that she should try living in my shoes once and try to be like that at 5'10. She usually stops talking after that, but short women have it much easier, and they don't realize that they should leave the tall guys to us. Height for them isn't a huge problem, yet somehow they still manage to complain about it. It's the tall girls who have more a reason to complain that no one is tall enough, not a girl of 5'4 who doesn't want to be the same height as her man if she wears heels. Seriously? I give her crap about it everytime she mentions it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
EmpoweredWoman Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 Good call Madam Chaucer. Criticize women for being stupid, irrational and shallow... and you're gay. Typical woman debating style, hopefully you'll fall out of your scooter down a flight of stairs tonight you fat old cunt. Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 Try being a man who isnt catching all the eyes as soon as he walks into the room. Hell, even if you ARE that man (I've been him here and there), as soon as a better looking/taller/richer guy comes in ALL THE WOMEN look at him and suddenly start clawing at eachother for HIS attention, in a split second. No woman wants the second best , much less the third, fourth, fifth or sixth. They want what everyone else wants, it's all about their social status and living vicariously through men. Yes. I must say. Too many women are like this. They want the best they can get. And nothing less. Don't even bother thinking about being even in their social circle if you are low enough. But not ALL women are like that. All it takes is one bro... Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 Good call Madam Chaucer. Criticize women for being stupid, irrational and shallow... and you're gay. Typical woman debating style, hopefully you'll fall out of your scooter down a flight of stairs tonight you fat old cunt. No, if you hate women but still want to have sexual contact with a live human - maybe you are repressing something that needs to be … explored. Out of the closet, you know what I mean, tiny little raging racist wolverine. And this is not "typical woman debating style." This is not a debate. You don't know how to debate. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
EmpoweredWoman Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 One of my best girlfriends is like that. A man can be taller than her, but if he isnt a minimum of about 5 or 6 inches taller than she is, she rejects him. I told her that she should try living in my shoes once and try to be like that at 5'10. She usually stops talking after that, but short women have it much easier, and they don't realize that they should leave the tall guys to us. Height for them isn't a huge problem, yet somehow they still manage to complain about it. It's the tall girls who have more a reason to complain that no one is tall enough, not a girl of 5'4 who doesn't want to be the same height as her man if she wears heels. Seriously? I give her crap about it everytime she mentions it. How come nobody ever says to tall women , who are ALWAYS complaining about how all the tall men are taken, both in real life and online, that "well, life isn't fair and people have preferences. It's evolutionary biology that men don't like tall women, shorter women are genetically healthier and tall men want shorter children, deal with it and stop whining". Not only do tall women have the gall to whine about that, unquestioned, but they also wouldn't date a guy their height, a little shorter, probably not even a guy whose just a little bit taller unless they're really forced to as a complete last resort (and probably only the last option). I would have no problem what so ever dating a woman 2-3 inches taller than me, based on height alone, I can find both short and tall women very attractive in different ways. But these same women don't find me attractive, not because of their psychic powers where they can foresee criticisms I make of women on the internet, not because I'm particularly ugly, or not in decent shape, or lack confidence, or don't have a sense of humor , or my personality is boring, or am a coward, or am completely incapable of protecting them with my own life if push came to shove. No, they wouldn't date me over a few damn inches of height. So die alone and go **** yourself Link to post Share on other sites
EmpoweredWoman Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 No, if you hate women but still want to have sexual contact with a live human - maybe you are repressing something that needs to be … explored. Out of the closet, you know what I mean, tiny little raging racist wolverine. And this is not "typical woman debating style." This is not a debate. You don't know how to debate. Actually, a gay person would be completely indifferent towards women or agree with them. Honest to god, I ENVY faggots. Maybe not the taking it in the pooper aspect of it, rofl, but rather the fact that homosexuals don't ever have to deal with women. If I never had to deal with women to get sex and intimacy, it would be one of the biggest reliefs a man could ask for. But alas, I was cursed a breeder , a fate only the most vengeful God would impose on a young man living in the 21st century feminist west. Link to post Share on other sites
FrustratedStandards Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 How come nobody ever says to tall women , who are ALWAYS complaining about how all the tall men are taken, both in real life and online, that "well, life isn't fair and people have preferences. It's evolutionary biology that men don't like tall women, shorter women are genetically healthier and tall men want shorter children, deal with it and stop whining". Not only do tall women have the gall to whine about that, unquestioned, but they also wouldn't date a guy their height, a little shorter, probably not even a guy whose just a little bit taller unless they're really forced to as a complete last resort (and probably only the last option). I would have no problem what so ever dating a woman 2-3 inches taller than me, based on height alone, I can find both short and tall women very attractive in different ways. But these same women don't find me attractive, not because of their psychic powers where they can foresee criticisms I make of women on the internet, not because I'm particularly ugly, or not in decent shape, or lack confidence, or don't have a sense of humor , or my personality is boring, or am a coward, or am completely incapable of protecting them with my own life if push came to shove. No, they wouldn't date me over a few damn inches of height. So die alone and go **** yourself Awww hunny. I think I might have a tampon lying around here somewhere... Who says tall women don't date the same height or shorter? I've only dated ONE man much taller than me. There was a BIG difference in how I felt about the height, and I was more comfortable with the taller man. Like you said, DEAL WITH IT. You should take your own advice. Link to post Share on other sites
PlumPrincess Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 One of my best girlfriends is like that. A man can be taller than her, but if he isnt a minimum of about 5 or 6 inches taller than she is, she rejects him. I told her that she should try living in my shoes once and try to be like that at 5'10. She usually stops talking after that, but short women have it much easier, and they don't realize that they should leave the tall guys to us. Height for them isn't a huge problem, yet somehow they still manage to complain about it. It's the tall girls who have more a reason to complain that no one is tall enough, not a girl of 5'4 who doesn't want to be the same height as her man if she wears heels. Seriously? I give her crap about it everytime she mentions it. If you were small, you would want to be taller, because your legs are too short. And you would be constantly bitching, because people overlook you all the time. You don't want to be in a crowd with people moving their elbows at the height of your head. You guys are all really off-putting with your complains. Just reading your whiny posts doesn't make me want to meet any of you, whether you are short or tall. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
FrustratedStandards Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 If you were small, you would want to be taller, because your legs are too short. And you would be constantly bitching, because people overlook you all the time. You don't want to be in a crowd with people moving their elbows at the height of your head. You guys are all really off-putting with your complains. Just reading your whiny posts doesn't make me want to meet any of you, whether you are short or tall. So how does being really small and at elbow-level in any way justify a short woman wanting a really tall man? Doesn't that kind of make the situation worse? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
EmpoweredWoman Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 Who says tall women don't date the same height or shorter? I've only dated ONE man much taller than me. There was a BIG difference in how I felt about the height, and I was more comfortable with the taller man. Like you said, DEAL WITH IT. You should take your own advice. I am dealing with it, mobile sperm bank, it's you who can't deal with it. You essentially just backed up every single thing I said. I do deal with it, my point was, where are the people to tell you to deal with it when you say **** like this : Seriously? I give her crap about it everytime she mentions it. The crickets chirp. It's ok for you to complain because tall guys don't want you, despite all the guys your height and shorter who would love to get to know you if only you weren't such a tall-whore (compared to most guys even 1 inch under the average height, who nobody, tall, medium or short, wants as a rule). Enjoy these insane times, Frustrated Standards, this is the only epoch in human history where men have actually tolerated the attitudes of the cunts in your generation and down. Link to post Share on other sites
FrustratedStandards Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 Enjoy these insane times, Frustrated Standards, this is the only epoch in human history where men have actually tolerated the attitudes of the cunts in your generation and down. Likewise. No one wants a b*tchy midget 2 Link to post Share on other sites
EmpoweredWoman Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 If you were small, you would want to be taller, because your legs are too short. And you would be constantly bitching, because people overlook you all the time. You don't want to be in a crowd with people moving their elbows at the height of your head. You guys are all really off-putting with your complains. Just reading your whiny posts doesn't make me want to meet any of you, whether you are short or tall. I don't get it, who asked you? You are by far one of the most frequent, yet forgettable posters. If you don't understand and don't want to hear people vent , don't read it. There's nothing you complain about? Now that I think of it, i think i vaguely, blurrily remember you whining about being a non-white and how white people are so amazingly privaleged. But that's OK, Jesse Jackson backs yo ass up homegirl. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 That Philly Dude fellow - I think you might have a lot in common. Link to post Share on other sites
FrustratedStandards Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 I don't get it, who asked you? You are by far one of the most frequent, yet forgettable posters. If you don't understand and don't want to hear people vent , don't read it. There's nothing you complain about? Now that I think of it, i think i vaguely, blurrily remember you whining about being a non-white and how white people are so amazingly privaleged. But that's OK, Jesse Jackson backs yo ass up homegirl. In the words of Kaylan, TROLL. Link to post Share on other sites
EmpoweredWoman Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 Likewise. No one wants a b*tchy midget But who wants the long haired Lurch? Ewwwww short and average height guys omg shoot me now. Link to post Share on other sites
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