Maria46 Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 Bf and I have lived together for almost a year now. He is away visiting family right now and will be back in a few days. When I first found this forum, it gave me information about my insecurity issues and bf and I plan on working on my issue along with what I believe is his lack of consideration for my feelings. What I want to know is if I am asking too much from him. He has been gone over 3 weeks and we talk on the phone a few times a week and then IM other days. This morning when we were both on line, instead of just talking with me, he continued to go back to some of the music downloads he was doing. I considered this rude as I would sit and wait for him to return and answer what I had written. When I finally got angry, I told him that I thought he was ignoring me. He is a very relaxed take it easy type guy, where I am the serious emotional woman. I know he loves me and I love him and miss him terribly. I am also going thru some personal problems with an ex business partner which really stresses me as well and hadn't sleep for a couple days. Was I wrong in getting upset with him? Maybe I'm a little impatient?? Will appreciate all the suggestions you can give me. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
average guy Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 It's the stress and lack of sleep. Relax. It doesn't sound like your bf has done anything serious. Try and get some sleep and relax before he gets home so you can have fun when he does Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Strider Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 There have been times I have been in the exact same situation, well genders are swtiched Often I would get mad at her for not responding to everything I say within a few minutes. Dont know when I stopped getting upset over it, guess I just realized one day that watching the clock while I wait for her to respond is ridiculous. I try to find other activities to do while talking with her, like playing a game online, looking at webpages, etc. Makes it alot better for me to talk with her, I dont get frustrated talking to her like I did before and also is more enjoyable to actually talk with her. I would suggest finding something that you would enjoy doing while talking with him, doesnt have to be an activity that needs your full attention, just something that you can do while there is a lull in the chat. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Maria46 Posted June 13, 2004 Author Share Posted June 13, 2004 Thanks for the replies. When we were talking he did say "you need to get some rest". I did rest today and will also find other things to occupy me when he is doing something else. Figured I was upset over nothing. Thanks again Link to post Share on other sites
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