the beev Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 Hey whats goin on, Hi my name is adam and i need help me and my ex mikalann broke up about 4 months ago and after about a month she would call about ever week or two. She would call and say hi tell me she was calling to make sure i was ok and ask me if i was seeing anybody i would tell her I still loved her and wasnt then she would say dont lie you always have girls all over you and she would say well i just wanted to make sure you were ok and hang up. Well about a week ago she told one of my friends that she missed me and missed being with me and she wanted me to call her i was all excited and happy for the first time in months. So i called and she said she missed me and wanted to be friends first so we could become close like we were before i enlisted in the navy.The long distance of 3 yrs really screwed us but i didnt have the money to support both of us cause she is a full time student, anyways she became more loving each day and the one day we talked for about 15 min then five minutes later she called back and said she still loves me and never stopped but i have not heard from here in 2 days now, ineed help. please if you understand women or any of this there is a sailor that needs his life back.I mean my heart wouldnt give up on her so i gave up on my heart. Adam Link to post Share on other sites
RipTide Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 I sadly know the girl game..Im only 16 but i've seen this case alotttt. first of all with your girl asking if you have been with any other girls. Its the jealously playing in. Women want what they can't have and when they DO get the guy in the end they are not interested anymore. Sadly there is no way to beat this vicious cycle. But you could always just TRY to move on as hard as it is to do, and guarenteed she will want you more and more but just let her in little by little, dont seem desperate to be with her, needy isn't good. Mention other girls discretly to her if she calls you, it drives girls alittle crazy but it makes girls more drawn to a guy. well that's all i've got, hope things work for the best! ~RIPTIDE Link to post Share on other sites
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