karie5744 Posted June 13, 2004 Posted June 13, 2004 I now realize what type of man I loved for 5 years and what he has been doing to me (our relationship)... commitment phobic personalities are sick persons needing therapy, a hypnotist, and possibly a plane ticket to an island far away from the opposite sex! In some ways I feel robbed of this relationship when I could have had a truthful lover.. but "It's better to have loved and lost then to have not loved at all" I have already posted an article in Infidelity.. and the answers I got did upset me. I went to my computer, found the answer.. that fit him to a T. I'm venting... I feel like a fool. I have never been through this type of relationship till him. Even though I'm hurt, angry, and feel empty... I will find true love. I had my doubts when I first submitted the first article. He is 64 and a Commitment-Phobic. They are said to not be BAD people. They are like claustrophobia people afraid of elevators , tight spots, etc. (but they are bad when they ruin another persons perspective of life) happiness to all......Kari
lydiamarie Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 of course they're not bad people-if they were, we wouldn't love them and it wouldn't hurt. it's always hard when relationships end, and i think it's worse when it's not about you or your relationship. things will get better. keep smiling, keep busy, and keep us posted
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