homegirl Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 size=1][color=blue][/color][font=century gothic][/font] hi there iam 33 years old .i have been seeing my brothers boss now for about 4 months. it started one time when i called to talk to my bother at work and his boss ask if i wanted to go shoot some pool. i said sure why not. we went and things happened and we had sex. i thought that would be it. but it continued. then i find out he had a girlfreind that he lives with . we see each other every other weekend. and he calls me from work and if i call to talk to my brother .his boss sits and talks to me. he is really funny and we get alone great. sometimes he tells me just dont get attached cause i dont know if iam gonna leave her or not. but then right after that he hugs all over me and stuff. he takes his girlfreind to work and then leaves there and comes and sees me. this past week my brothers new girlfriend calls his girlfreind at work and tells her that he is seeing me. and that she can prove it. his girlfriend ask him and he says to her that i dont have alot of time wo spend with you how can i have time to see someone else .and she said i thought that too. and never said any more to him. i care for this guy alot. i think he is with her cause she has alot of money. i know for a fact they agrue all the time. he says i make him laugh. what should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 Originally posted by homegirl hi there iam 33 years old .i have been seeing my brothers boss now for about 4 months. Hopefully if and when things go bad, he won't take it out on your brother. I hope your brother is okay with this. it started one time when i called to talk to my bother at work and his boss ask if i wanted to go shoot some pool. i said sure why not. we went and things happened and we had sex. Moving pretty fast there, eh? The thought that this is your brother's boss did not cross your mind then? i thought that would be it. but it continued. That also probably is not such a good way to be thinking. then i find out he had a girlfreind that he lives with . we see each other every other weekend. and he calls me from work and if i call to talk to my brother .his boss sits and talks to me. he is really funny and we get alone great. sometimes he tells me just dont get attached cause i dont know if iam gonna leave her or not. but then right after that he hugs all over me and stuff. He is most likely using you. He realized how quickly he was able to "get access" to you, and you are hanging around despite the fact that he cheated on his girlfriend with you. Right now are you not getting bad signs from him? Firstly, he is a cheater. Secondly, he seems to be using you. Lastly, why would you continue to see him, or consider seeing him in a relationship when he already showed you how quick he is to be unfaithful? he takes his girlfreind to work and then leaves there and comes and sees me. this past week my brothers new girlfriend calls his girlfreind at work and tells her that he is seeing me. and that she can prove it. his girlfriend ask him and he says to her that i dont have alot of time wo spend with you how can i have time to see someone else .and she said i thought that too. and never said any more to him. i care for this guy alot. i think he is with her cause she has alot of money. i know for a fact they agrue all the time. he says i make him laugh. what should i do? I think you should run the hell away from this guy. See how sleazy he sounds? He drops his girlfriend off at work and then runs right out to cheat on her with you. He has the best of both worlds here, and you are letting him use you. I don't think this is a healthy situation to be in, and how in the world can you care about a sleaze bag like him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author homegirl Posted June 14, 2004 Author Share Posted June 14, 2004 hey its me again. thanks for all the help .my brother does know about this. he is ok with it as long as i dont get hurt he said. but he dont come between him and his boss. they are really good friends and his boss said no matter what happens its personal and it wont effect my brothers job. i know this does sound like he is a sleeze ball. but he is nice to me. he has never been mean or anything to me. i just cant understand why his girlfreind asks like she dont care. but i have another thing she wants him to bring her out one night with all of us. my brother and his girlfriend and my boyfreind which i dont have .cause she says she wants to meet me what should i do on this. iam not a mean person i would never do anything to her well other then what iam doing now. do i sound like a bad person. my best freind says he must not care about her if he still wants to see me. i just dont know what to think Link to post Share on other sites
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