what would be a good responce to a message like this

[greyskies]

Okay My ex is messing with me still please someone tell me if you can help me with this. Okay as you all know my ex and me broke up long ago and well have not yet really been apart. He still claims we are not together yet we are still intimate and he went with me to a family function. He asked me to spend a few days with him a while back to make sure he was on time for work. Which I took as a bunch crap. Come on he has an alarm clock and his mother lives with him like he wouldn't be able to to get up without me there. Then after that he tells me my mom says you can't stay here another night. Like I was pawning myself on him or something when he asked me to stay in the first place. Then after he took me to this family function he started acting really strange and being really cold.

 

I use to call him constantly and try to question him about everything but I don't do that any more and I quit giving him stuff all the time. Well anyway I was talking to a friend of ours the other night and asked had they seen or heard from him and they said yeah he was on his way over there and I was going thought something and need to talk to him so I went over there. Well on my way there I see him leaving so I turn around and catch up to him. And he jets onto the freeway and trys to lose me and it made me mad. He had no reason to be acting that way. So I just kept following him and he went to his house and he jumps out of his car and runs into the house. Well I had went by his house just before this and was visiting his mom when the phone rang and the answer machine picked it up and it was this girl whom is a known tramp home wrecker leaving him a message about meeting her at the bar. I felt sick to my stomach. but that is why I wanted to talk to him.

 

So anyway after he lets me in and we talk he starts like ironing his shirt like he's going out on some date. So I leave but of course I'm little mad because he kept pulling the message out that his mother wrote for him and reading it over and over again. So when I left I something really messed up like you watch what happens from you hanging with that low life blankity blank blank blank. Then I call his house phone and said some more stupid stuff and then I realized what the hell am I doing acting like this I felt so stupid. So I called and said I didn't know what got into me but I was sorry. Well I didn't see him for like 3 days and I was at a mutual friends house and needed a ride home so I called him to come get me. He acted all mad still so when we got into the car I told myself don't say a word to him . And I didn't.

 

He started going off on me about the messages I left on his moms phone and **** and said he wants nothing to do with me I said fine I don't love you anymore anyway. And he started to cry. Well he carries my things into the house and next thing you know we are having sex. And then he leaves. Well last night I instant messaged him just said hello. And what he was doing mothing me either bored. etc. Well then he suddenly put this away messege up an bout how he was going to that chicks birthday party at his palace. Which he knows would totally break my heart. Why would he keep doing this to me ? And what would be a good message to put on mine after reading his?

[Thinkalot]

I'd not have sex with him anymore, and step back. You can't keep your emotions getting all messed about like this. Either he wants to be with you, and you want to be with him...or you are apart.

 

If it's to be the latter...well then the reply message would be something cool...like "OK then...have fun". If he's playing games to try and hurt you...then don't let him see he IS hurting you.

 

And further more...start changing the situation so he cant keep hurting you, one way or the other.

 

I'm sorry you're going through as rough time of it.

 

Good luck

[Miss_Behavin143]

Sounds to me like he's saying he doesn't want to be with you because he also wants to see other people too, but at the same time.. he still wants to "BE" with you, hang out with you, but he just wants the freedom to go and "BE" with, and hang out with other people. He's kinda using you, if you ask me and I'd get out of it and not do that. It's not fair that you should have to share a man because he is too selfish to be with just one girl. I'd move on. Just my opinion, though.

[supermom]

He cares for your vagina and that's all he cares for.

[Karlise13]

He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too.

 

It's an age-old story.

 

 

Don't try to read anything more into it. Let him go his merryway and you go find yourself something bigger and better.