DaisyXO Posted June 13, 2004 Share Posted June 13, 2004 Hi, I just came on here looking for some advice. Hopefully someone on here can give me some help!! I'm 20 years old and am dating someone who is in the Air Force. We have been dating for a year now. I live in Michigan and he is stationed in Montana. In August we have plans for me to move to Montana and live together. I'm just scared about leaving my friends, family, and job to go live in Montana. I'm also afraid that he will get deployed again and I will be living alone without any family. I love this man so much and he means so much to me. I just don't know how hard it is going to be emotionally. Has anyone had to make this decision before? I need some help....or maybe just some support, knowing that it will be OK and its not a big mistake to move. Thanks!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Shasta Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 I knew this young lady who came into where I used to work all the time who was dating a military man. She had just moved to Arizona to live with him. They got married, and then he got stationed in Hawaii. She was left in Tucson to make arrangements to move all of their stuff. She got everything together, and then he got deployed again to Iraq. She really had a rough time. She would come in and just be crying and talking to us. I really felt bad for her because she loved this man so much, she was just put in a stressful situation. Military men are hot, no doubt about it, but you have to think of your life. Will you be able to handle everything by youself is he is deployed? I say, if you want to be with him, go and be with him. You can always talk to family through emails and phone conversations. Goodluck! Link to post Share on other sites
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