crstl33 Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 after being separated from my husband for 2 weeks, he decided to come over. we talked, i listened, he stayed. over the past few days he had brought some of his clothes over and some little stuff. he has stayed every night since then.. but still hasnt really moved back in.. he has left me so confused.. are we together or what.. he recieved a phone call today, and lets just say he told this person on the phone his location was at crystals house, not home. he left soon after.. havent heard from him since. why would he refer this house as just mine and not his.. it doesnt make since to me. what do you think.. i know i should be happy he has even stayed but something isnt right... maybe i am rushing into something. Link to post Share on other sites
amanda25 Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 Originally posted by crstl33 after being separated from my husband for 2 weeks, he decided to come over. we talked, i listened, he stayed. over the past few days he had brought some of his clothes over and some little stuff. he has stayed every night since then.. but still hasnt really moved back in.. he has left me so confused.. are we together or what.. he recieved a phone call today, and lets just say he told this person on the phone his location was at crystals house, not home. he left soon after.. havent heard from him since. why would he refer this house as just mine and not his.. it doesnt make since to me. what do you think.. i know i should be happy he has even stayed but something isnt right... maybe i am rushing into something. I think if I were you, I would ask him..What is the point of hm coming back, if the intentions were not to work things out? And why would you want him there, if he is seeing someone else?? Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 You were separated for 2 weeks only and allready he's at "crystal's house"? Honey, pack his bags and put them on the porch for him to pick up. 'cause you don't desirve leftovers. Either he comes back to you and you start working on your relationship, with responsability, awareness and dedication, either you end all this! This is plain sad. I mean if he doesn't know yet, why come back and tourment you with it? Talk to someone else about this... detailsabout his locatios... too many blanks to fill for me not to be at least very suspicious! Every woman desirves 100% of her man, nothing less, nothing more! Don't allow him to play you and disrespect you! I may be overreacting, crystal, but it's pretty outrageous what he's doing to you! Link to post Share on other sites
crstl33 Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 thank you for your advise. ive been really considering gathering all his clothes up and let him go. its not fair to me or my kids (which are not his) and when it comes to the kids he doesnt really want to play a important role. he has two kids of his own, and seriously he doesnt want that responsibility either. its sad to think that i have invested almost 8 years on this man. I have started seeing a counselor. but without him. i am hoping it will make me alot wiser and able me to let go. thanks again.. this site has been a real bleesing to me. Link to post Share on other sites
ready2moveon26 Posted June 16, 2004 Share Posted June 16, 2004 Crystal, I know exactly what you are going through...when my husband and I seperated, he had no place to go and it was both of our decission to try seperate for a week or so to see what happened. He was everywhere during the day ...but ended up at home with me every night. One night I got home from work and he said, I can't do this anymore...can you take me to my mom's house? (His car was MY car) I was about to say...why can't your girlfriend come and take you to your mom's or have your mom come and get you, but for myself, I took him. It doesn't get any easier...just so you know. Link to post Share on other sites
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