My ex-gf wants to get back, i'm confused..... PLEASE HELP!

[quyster]

My ex-girlfriend and me are broken up for a little over 3 months now, we were together n doing good for 3 years, then she broke up with me..... She said she "loves me but not in love, she needed time n space to find herself....." I tried to do everything to get her back but no result...... I still love her with all my heart.

 

During the last three months, we argued a lot, revenge, hate,..... a lot of bad stuff. I thought that we would never get back. So I decided to forget about it and move on. A week ago, she heard that I dated this very cute and pretty girl, me n that girl liked each other.

 

My ex-girlfriend called and wanted to work things out. We dated again, for about 4 days. Both of us felt the old feeling again. Then she said: she wants to get back and wants us to last forever and it would be perfect. But now is not the time!

 

She said that she is not ready for me cuz she feels guilty for hurting me and doing bad stuff to me. She can't face herself and me for what she did (guilty feeling). She said that she needs more time to be ready. By the time she's ready, she would give me her all, and be committed, and guarantee that I would not get any drama but only love and happiness. I don't know why we can't be together right now??????

 

I'm really confused about what is happening. Yes, I really want her back cuz we had such great 3 years together. But I don't know what is going on in her mind. Don't know how long I have to wait. Don't know what the hell is happening???????????

[Greeneyedgirl]

well I have been the girl in this situation amd I am telling you from experience... She is jealous!! and if she sees you with your new girlfriend her heart will be broken and she'll try to get you back again... In her mind you aren't good enough for her but you can't have anyobdy else... trust me.. I know what she's thinking.. Do not get back with her... (just my opinion)