digger Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 But i need opinions. I have been in the throws of hell for 15 weeks now after the love of my life filed for divorce. If you knew her, you'd think she'd be the last to ever inflict all this hurt. She goes from "i dont love you anymore" to "ill think about it" when i mention reconciliation. Im now (and i started to late) in the 12th day of no contact. Yesterday especially tough since it was her first birthday in 22 yrs I havent spent with her. We have a pre=trial conference in 3 days and the D has to be over with by June 28 or it gets dismissed. I've seen to effort or want on her part to try to work it out. She refuses counseling. But this was especially upsetting and what I need opinions on. I have since moved out to an apartment, and wife boxed up alot of stuff. As i unpacked what was in the bookcases, books, nic nacs, etc, lo and behold in one of the boxes she had placed a 5x7 of we 2 together. It didnt get there by accident as there were other pictures and I can't help but imagine it wasn't put in there on purpose. She knew what she was boxing up and what for. How many explanations are there. What do u think? Link to post Share on other sites
mendingmyheart04 Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 she's letting you know that she doesn't want that picture....? Link to post Share on other sites
KANSAN Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 I THINK WOMEN CAN BE PRETTY MEAN, 100 TIMES MEANER THAN MEN BE CAREFUL SHE IS TRYING TO HURT YOU, MOVE ON AND IF SHE COMES BACK GOOD AND IF NOT YOU'RE ON YOUR WAY TO GETTING BETTER. SOUNDS LIKE YOU HAVE TIME TO WORK ON YOURSELF AND LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DEAL BETTER. Link to post Share on other sites
crstl33 Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 it is just a reminder of the two of you. just in case one day you do forget. i know its going to be hard at first, and of course when you love someone you will never forget. but hopifully faith is in your corner, and she will be the one that regrets everything. Link to post Share on other sites
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