onelifetolive Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 Hey Everyone, Just to share my own story : Me and My ex dated for 2.5 years, I'm 24 and she's 19 now, In the end it wasn't going that well so she broke up with me and she said it was because i wasn't giving her enough attention... I was OK with it at first but two weeks after it hit me so i told her the truth how i feel she just never had the courage to talk to me in person, she was always saying i'm sorry, hope you forgive me one day and this and that...Right now i can say that i'm OK and i'm kinda Happy Before the meeting i went NC for 1 Month and before that it was LC. This Saturday, i went out and i was drunk, she was at the same place..We kissed and then she ran after... She tried to text me that night but i didn't respond... The morning after i texted her and said i think we should talk and yesterday we met up. We went for a coffee, we joked around she was pretty natural. But we started to talk about the past... I felt like we didn't even broke up. I can't say that i love her still but i have still some feelings for her and i told her that, but she said that she's not ready to try again... I said it's ok and that i taught that we just weren't meant for eachother, then she started to cry and said that she doesn't think the same way and that it hurts her to hear that... Then we talked more she said that she's not well with her mom, that the she's only well when she goes out...I said to her everything is going to be ok, i held her in my arms...We talked and in the end i told her That if we are meant to be we're meant to be if not we have lived something great.... It's hard for me today and i know it's over... I justed wanted to know what you guys think, i needed to talk to someone Link to post Share on other sites
Whisky1981 Posted March 27, 2012 Share Posted March 27, 2012 Dont be sad. The last thing you said is effen great. It describes everything. You are heald man and you are not sure if it was something real there. You are still young...24....that is a great age to be single and meet people. So spend the time searching for new opportunities....She broke up with you for whatever reasons...if you ever get back you know that those reasons can be addressed only to some point but you as a person will remain more or less the same. So I see no point in being sad about something that has gone wrong. You need to start anew and you already took a huge step forward. I really dont think about my ex-gf anymore and it has beed 3,5 months. I am devastated and sad because I have been rejected by a new girl that I fell in "love" with. Its strange but life goes and moves on and throws some real sh*t at you all the time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author onelifetolive Posted March 28, 2012 Author Share Posted March 28, 2012 Thanks Man for the advice I know sometimes it isn't easy but man on thing that I can say and i'm proud of it is that I don't have any regrets I do everything with my heart and will continue to be like that. And one day maybe the right person will come into our life, we just have to be patient. Do good thing and life will reward you Wish you the best my man. Link to post Share on other sites
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