quietGuy13 Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 You guys may not get this because most people here in forums are typicals. I may be the only atypical. I am in my 30s can't talk, and speak like a kid and worse. I'm not knowledgeable of things and i can't speak. Seems to me, from all i read in these forums that women, want typical men. They don't like someone who is weird and unusual. So when i have asked things, some people tell me just be confident etc. WEll that doesn't really help, because i'm myself and people still think i'm stupid and weird because i sound and act like a kid. *** It's difficult to understand what i mean by typical, right? WEll, i see typicals everywhere i go. I'm the only one who is not like that. Everywhere i've been, every one has been a typical except me. All the 30+ year old guys out there are typicals. What am I, and others like me, what are we supposed to do to get love? Some of you say "Go to clubs" or go to some activity. Yeah that would work for typical people. But people my age who go to clubs, events, activities are all mature or some part of them is mature(speaking ability) and i never fit in. The thing is...the way my mind works is childish and kiddy. I can't change that's just how it's wired. I laugh alot and giggle and stuff. 1
SJC2008 Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Go to a dating site for people with disabilities. They are out there and there just may be a woman like you but you won't know until you don't try. 1
samsungxoxo Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Go to a dating site for people with disabilities. They are out there and there just may be a woman like you but you won't know until you don't try.Yeah the OP needs the female counterpart of him. I'm looking for my male version and unlike the OP I don't have communication disabilities but it's still getting hard to find him.
poodle Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 You guys may not get this because most people here in forums are typicals. I may be the only atypical. I am in my 30s can't talk, and speak like a kid and worse. I'm not knowledgeable of things and i can't speak.What makes you think you're not knowledgeable? It looks like you can form your own opinion and for most people that's all they need to be able to hold interesting conversations. Don't let talking like a kid bother you so much. You don't have to pop out sentences like a sales person to be considered date-able. I see lots of guys, who many would consider unusual or odd, in happy relationships. Nobody is a hopeless case. Take a look at this. If that doesn't motivate you, I don't know what will. The thing is...the way my mind works is childish and kiddy. I can't change that's just how it's wired. I laugh alot and giggle and stuff. Why do you consider that to be a bad thing? To me it sounds like you're fun and playful, which should work to your advantage.
ditzchic Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Go to a dating site for people with disabilities. They are out there and there just may be a woman like you but you won't know until you don't try. This is a great idea! Or maybe a support group in your local area for people with disabilities.
brokenTom Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Everywhere i've been, every one has been a typical except me. This has been pretty much how I've felt, for as long as I can remember, so I think I understand where you're coming from. In the past years though I've really come to appreciate my differences and I'm relatively at peace with who I am. You can get there too, don't lose hope! If you are seeking approval from the outside world and it isn't working, trying seeking approval from within. Yes it takes some hard work, but there's plenty of help out there if you reach out. Now, if you are looking for a mate I can guarantee you there are PLENTY of women out there who like the different/quirky type. But if I were you I'd try working on yourself a bit first. Best wishes and good luck
RainMann Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Does being a female, count as a disability? Just asking...
brokenTom Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Does being a female, count as a disability? Just asking... No, but having a small small brain might... of course you'd probably never understand this flaw in yourself and would continue to go on acting like you are smart. (btw, I didn't mean to say that YOU have a small brain)
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