budley12 Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 Ex and I dated for 3 years. We were each others firsts. I have told my story on here over and over again and I get the same responses, but it still makes me feel a bit better people responding -knowing I am not alone. I am still hopeful that one day we will get back. I know that day is not today, nor tomorrow, nor anytime soon... but I still hope. I went on a blind date last night with a guy I met online, we have been talking via texting for a week now. I was excited/anxious to meet up with him, and everything was going well until he started to flirt more (putting arm on me and cuddling on couch). I immediately cringed and asked him to leave because I was missing my ex. Then today I took a nap and had a dream that my ex and I were back together... when I woke up I thought it had became a reality but then I realized "its over". I then cried for a good hour. This is the 4th month into our breakup, 8th week of me initiating NC. I am hoping that my ex's new relationship is just a fling to fill his void, but I have a feeling the main reason my ex dumped me was to be with this new person. If I have a chance of getting back, when does the "honeymoon" stage wear off with this new relationship so that I can hopefully make contact again and he may miss me? Why am I still obsessing/hurting? Why was he able to move on so fast and start dating again? How do I convince myself that I want to be over him and not have hopes? When will I be able to say "hi" when we walk past each other on campus, instead of me ignoring him?... Link to post Share on other sites
casanovadude81 Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 Ah what a wonderful thing to have some one care about you so much. I would love a girl like you. If your ex wanted you he could get you so, just try and move on and don't wonder if you'll get back togather. Once you heal things will get easier. Just give it time and take things the minute. Link to post Share on other sites
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