ridinbikes247 Posted March 31, 2012 Share Posted March 31, 2012 Married for almost 5 years, together almost 7. We have a 4 year old boy I left my wife the day after valentines because I finally got tired of her selfishness - she always said "if you want us to work out I need to do this and that" I bought her a car and bought us a house about 4-6 months ago . I did alot to try and make us work and she never appreciated anything I did. I was a bad husband the first 2 years but changed ALOT. She went south. After I changed for the good, she changed for the bad - Her friend's became her #1 priority. She wanted to do what SHE wanted to do. The night I left, she told me "if you leave I will never take you back. I am who I am and I will do what I want to....If you cant accept that than we shouldnt be together so leave" So that comment hurt and I left . The first 2 weeks was easy - We talked, said I loved you, i went over there for our 4 year old boy. did supper a few nights and talked, family pictures were still on the wall and etc. the 3rd and 4th week she started taking pictures down. she said she didnt want to say "i love you anymore" - the 6th week she said she was ready for separation papers so we signed them - she did not even shed a tear. I held mine back, but I know she seen me about to cry....now here we are going on the 8th week and I'm devastated - - I keep asking my self - - " where would we be if i didnt leave that night" - She was very rude and disrespectful, but i dont know what feelings im feeling right now Link to post Share on other sites
Author ridinbikes247 Posted April 1, 2012 Author Share Posted April 1, 2012 Just a very nice guy who tried everything to make it work with our family Link to post Share on other sites
standtall Posted April 2, 2012 Share Posted April 2, 2012 Just a very nice guy who tried everything to make it work with our family Well, whatever you're trying ain't working. Women do not love men they do not respect. Try to stop playing a doormat, and act like a partner in the marriage and not the victim. Link to post Share on other sites
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