Kezz Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 Hi, Recently discovered that my wife frequently surfs lesbian porn sites when ever she's alone? By frequently I mean every few days. Do you think this is something to be concerned about. I've never had reason to think she is bi or gay in the past? Link to post Share on other sites
Matilda Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 I think it could go either way (no pun intended ). Many people are turned on sexually by things that they have no intention of doing in reality. But, it would make me wonder too. Can you ask her about it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kezz Posted June 15, 2004 Author Share Posted June 15, 2004 Would love to ask her but then I'll have to explain why I was looking at her surfing history Link to post Share on other sites
Confused123 Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 This may be just what your wife likes to masterbate too.. Just like all you men on this site says, it is not that you want these women, it may be the same for your wife. The thought of two women getting in on, it appealing on many level. As a women, i can see this, but it sure doesn't mean I would want to be involved in any women on women action... Maybe, you wife just likes the visual aspect of it... Do you guys watch porn together? If so, suggest some girl on girl porn and see how she reacts... That is one way to approach the issue, without letting her know you looked at the history. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 And, erm, do you have children? Link to post Share on other sites
Lucinda Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 It's all just fantasy ......I watched a program on it one evening. Perhaps bring up a conversation regarding each of your private fantasies and maybe she will talk about it then rather then saying you found it in her history. Fantasies are usually harmless and people do not usually want to act on them. If you talk openly to her about both of your fantasies maybe you will find out. Sometimes people will not share all their private fantasies because it takes away from it ....so maybe she will not share it with you. However, maybe she will .....it's worth a try. Good Luck, Lucinda Link to post Share on other sites
krbshappy71 Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 Originally posted by Kezz Would love to ask her but then I'll have to explain why I was looking at her surfing history So, why were you? And why are you worried about explaining this to her? Are you being honest in this relationship? How is she supposed to open up to you if you are being sneaky? Rethink this situation, try to see it from another person's view. I'm more concerned about your above comment than your wife's curiousity in lesbianism. Link to post Share on other sites
lydiamarie Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 1 woman=hot 2 women=really hot my SO laughs at me because i check out other women at least as much as he does and way more often than i check out men. it's probably just a fantasy. if it is, then take advantage of it! isn't 2 women a pretty common male fantasy? if it's one of yours, then it's a fantasy that both of you have. it's only odd because neither of you would likely be participating. i liked confused's idea about suggesting lesbian porn. (if porn's her thing. personally, even the super soft core stuff they have on Oh! makes me blush ) Link to post Share on other sites
ladyangel Posted June 16, 2004 Share Posted June 16, 2004 lydiamarie - I like your thinking. Link to post Share on other sites
Phelly Posted June 16, 2004 Share Posted June 16, 2004 Originally posted by dyermaker And, erm, do you have children? all i can say is LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kezz Posted June 16, 2004 Author Share Posted June 16, 2004 No we've no kids and just for the record, was not intentionally spying. Initially was just looking through the history logs on our computer and found the sites listed. Link to post Share on other sites
krbshappy71 Posted June 16, 2004 Share Posted June 16, 2004 Originally posted by Kezz No we've no kids and just for the record, was not intentionally spying. Initially was just looking through the history logs on our computer and found the sites listed. So if it was no big deal, why not just be honest with her and talk about it? Link to post Share on other sites
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