dachshund Posted June 16, 2004 Share Posted June 16, 2004 I have a girlfriend of 2 years..we have been close for all these sometimes..recently about 2 months ago..we broke up...she said that she feel stress with me because we quarrel and i took her for granted..she has been nice to me all along..but after she work she changed ..she become close to her friends..she said she feels happy with them..and dun wan relationship...right after break up..i ask her give me another chance...she said she give me enough chances ... i beg her..i tell her how much i love her..what i did..then she said we unfated? when i ask her..she said maybe yes..she said she dont wan any relationship now..need a rest...i dunno what i can do now..i miss her very badly...when i ask her out she said she not ready to go out with me..she feels weird and is closer with her friends...she say i always nag about patching up..she is scared of hearing that...i give her a ring a letter and one SORRY bear...i did a puzzle for her..but haven give her yet....i miss her everyday...time passes very slowly...i miss her kisses..when we are together...when we hug n cuddle along in bed...we have nice moments together..She keep saying she is not ready for relationship..she has no trust in love now..i dunno how to let her gain that trust back.. Link to post Share on other sites
disguy Posted June 16, 2004 Share Posted June 16, 2004 Well her girlfriends have a huge play on this. They are probably putting things in perspective for her. Maybe you guys do need this break. I would just see what happens. But her being with her girls aren't gonna make things easier. She will go out more and meet other people. I hate to tell you this but your pretty much doomed. Link to post Share on other sites
AlleyBaba Posted June 17, 2004 Share Posted June 17, 2004 Hey there...I feel empathy for you, but I think your best bet right now is to leave her alone. I understand that this will be very difficult, but the more you push her the more likely she will run in the other direction. When and if she comes to you, begin to build the trust again. I would say a month is a good time - if she doesn't contact you after that, re-evaluate your feelings towards her and act accordingly. After the dust has settled both of you will be in a better position to make a real decision. Give it some time. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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